First let me say, I am a labor and delivery nurse, so do not witness codes very often, in fact I've only been in on two - one in nursing school, and one in our ICU when we had enough RN's in our department for me to go and assist.
My question is - what is mood/environment like during codes that you've experienced? The two that I witnessed, it was strange to me - the nurses and medical personnel were just chit-chatting about their week, etc... while they did CPR - of course there were orders of meds being given and administered - with great care - but no one seemed sad, upset, serious, etc...... Now I must say - both of these were older people who had been sick - so maybe it's because of that - they no-one seemed to care? Maybe it's because I've not been around that end of it much, and death still seems so devastating to me. I could not help but stare at the person, and think that this is someones loved one - the most dear person in the world to someone - and their life is slipping away - someone's daddy, husband, brother, son. How would I feel if that was my loved one laying there, and yes - protocol and ACLS guidelines were followed, and everything possible was done, BUT - there was no evidence of concern in the people who worked on them - like it didn't really matter the outcome - it's just a procedure.
I just find this disturbing. I'm sure if was in ER, and someone came in and coded, there would be a sense of urgency and seriousness - I hope anyway. Maybe it's because the medical personnel knew these particular people were very ill, and it was better that they passed. I totally understand that. I guess I just can't understand how anything could seem funny or humerous, or trivial, when a life ends.
All I know is when we have a bad baby - one that requires complete resucitation, It is the most important thing in the world to me in that moment. Everyone ounce of me is seriously doing everything I can for my patient. Even in a situation where you almost KNOW the baby has really no chance, or will have severe brain damage. I believe it my job to try 100%, and out of respect for the family/patient, I could not imagine talking about what party I attended last weekend, while I was doing compressions!
Please, I am not trying to criticize anyone - I am just wanting to know how others feel about this, and what you have witnessed.
Also when I re-read this - I realized I sort of implied that the nurses in the code weren't trying 100% - that is totally not what I mean. Like I said - I believe good appropriate medical care was given, it was just the atmosphere/attitudes that I was wondering about. - Just to clarify.