hi
i am a fairly new grad and i am having trouble with a nurse who thinks its's funny to tease me about how i nurse. He only works 8 hr night shift and all he does is talk about everybody else behind there backs and makes fun of almost everybody.
he will constantly make comments like..
"So when are you going to stop asking questions?"
or
" Are you going to be like so-and-so and do such and such"
other nurses who hear him make these commenrs say.."oh he's just teasing you know"
I am also teased for bieng a caring nurse
As a new grad i am trying to build confidence and he is not helping.
I never laugh at his jokes hoping this would give him a clue to how i feel ...but it's not stopping
I cried after the last shift after he asked if was ever going to do the narcotic count (while i was up to my arms in c.diff poop). Since he only works an 8 hr night shift he doesn't even know what goes on during a day shift.
I know i need to confront him. I am just having trouble thinking of what I should say. I am also afaid it will get worse if i confront him
I really like where i work (neurosciences) and i don't want to quit
please help