I'm new to nursing and new to the politics in the hospital. Since I've been on orientation I've witnessed a few situations that left me wondering. Like about ethics...
For instance, we had a patient that was end-stage Multiple Sclerosis. She was very contracted and had a very difficult time speaking, but if you took the time to figure out what she was saying, you'd see that she makes perfect sense when she talks. She never had episodes of confusion, and even made jokes every now and then. So she was completely there, mentally.
She's had a Hospice consult but the family refused Hospice...so she stayed in the hospital for way longer than was medically necessary because she had nowhere to go. No nursing home would take her either. But I don't understand how the family can refuse. What does "the family" have to do with the decision...
When anybody would ask why this lady was here for so long, the social workers and nurses who had been working with her forever would say that it's because the daughter lives in her mother's house, and if the lady goes to Hospice, then the daughter won't have anywhere to go, or will stop getting goverment money...something like that. But the daughter is grown with a 10 year old kid herself. (I don't completely understand because I don't understand Medicaid or Medicare, and what happens to that when people go into nursing homes or Hospice.)
So...my questions are:
1) Why is her daughter being a loser ANY of our concern...especially when our obligation is to our patient who would have a much better death in Hospice than on our crappy MedSurg floor...and especially when there's plenty of other government programs who give free housing to broke chicks with kids.
2) Why are we accepting the family's refusal when the patient is competent? Why isn't the final decision made by the patient? ...perhaps in a private conversation between the social worker and the patient without the loud-mouthed daughter talking over her mother...
:monkeydance: And the lady told me she would rather go somewhere like Hospice, but they ended up discharging her home. It just makes me sad and frustrated because I keep seeing the rules broken. Like we tell one family that we can't give out info over the phone, and then we give info over the phone to another family. I just want to know what I can and can't do.