Alright, let me preface this by saying, we all get mad, frustrated, irritated, and down right "let me punch something" mad over work. It happens, but by all that is holy do we always have to pull someone into another room every time our feelings get hurt?
Yeah I am frustrated. I work with someone who is consistently pulling this nurse or that nurse into the break room to discuss some sleight, off hand comment, reason for an assignment.
I am honestly sick of it.
I have once, pulled someone aside and addressed an issue. It was my preceptor and I was under the assumption that she felt I was incompetent. After chatting I realized she just didn't get my sense of humor and wasn't sure how to communicate with me. After that day, all was fine.
However I am tired of this woman pulling me aside if I don't say "hello" each time I come in, or because I discussed a reason for an assignment with another staff.
We all have things to get over, but is it everyone's right to vent them every time the moment feels right? Maybe I am having a short sighted day, but to me it seems like a way to get out of thinking about why the situation makes you feel the way it does, and instead passes the blame onto someone else.
Tait