our county system does not have a "no nit" policy. we do however, have a policy in place that requires that children be sent home if live lice are found....
i have a k girl that i have sent home numerous times over lice. her sister is in one of the upper grades and it's been a constant struggle with her too. the parents just flat out don't care. i've sent home several informative sheets about cleaning the home and things that the children come in contact with and everything i can think of. i even went as far as to get them connected with the health department for further resources because it was becoming such a problem.
i sent the k girl home a couple of weeks ago with lice and sent home the packet containing all the information and a copy of the school board policy. parents send her back the next day with the empty box of lice shampoo and a nasty note telling me that "she must be getting it from school cause they didn't find s***. etc etc."
fast forward to yesterday, the k girl comes in around 1:30, with a note from her teacher. i check her head, and there are live bugs crawling in her hair. i call dad and he is like "okay, okay" and then hangs up on me.
she comes in this morning and immediately is itching. her teacher notices that her hair doesn't look like it has been treated (in the past, when they have actually treated it, it's cleaner and straighter). she sends her to the clinic to be checked. the girl tells me that they didn't do anything to her hair last night, except look at it. i check her head, find a bug. i call mom, she gets huffy and tells me that everyone in the family looked in her hair last night and there was nothing there at all. i tell mom i will re-check and call her back, just to hush her up. i check again, find a different bug and call back. no answer. i leave a message for mom to call me. i've called three more times, they just aren't answering the phone now.
in the mean time, i have spoke to the principal, he says she has to go home if they call back. the county nurse that floats from school to school was on her way to the middle school so i had her stop by here. we found three live lice and caught them with tape. they are now sitting on my desk. there is at least one more in her hair that we couldn't get.
i'm not going to make the kiddo sit in my office all day. i sent her to get lunch and spoke to her teacher (who is wary about the other kids getting it because this little girl loves to hug on everyone and stuff like that) and she is going to eat her lunch in her classroom.
at this point, mom still hasn't called me back. i'm really concerned that her or dad is going to get violent at some point. the principal also has that concern because he asked me to alert the school resource officer (a sherriff's dept employee who works for the school board) to come here just in case they show up fuming. however, the resource officer is off today! of all days!
this little girl has missed several days r/t lice. i've done everything i can think of....
what should my next step be???