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Hi,
i would really like to know what others think about this..... yesterday, we had two people call in sick for the pm shift. So at 2.15, 15 minutes before our day shift was over, our charge nurse informed us that one of us would "have to" stay. "Us" of course meant only the aides. She seemed to feel no obligation whatsoever to cover for the absent staff members.
Anyway, none of us volunteered- one had no babysitter, two were already in overtime, one had another job, one had plans for the evening, i was not feeling well and also had a lot of homework to do yet. So none of us aides wanted to stay. So the charge nurse walked around pointing at each of us saying "you can't leave". Then she said we have to figure out who is staying, more or less implying that it should be me (since the other aide's excuses seemed to be more valid in her opinion i guess). I said I would not stay. I was too stunned by her field marshal behavior to say anything else, but I was determined not to stay. She said okay, lets flip a coin. Just before it came to that, the aide who had plans reluctantly agreed to stay. I felt like everyone was pointing fingers at me, though.
I am soooo mad. Not once did it cross her mind that maybe she should stay. Is that really so unreasonable? I mean, she's in charge, and if none of us aides can stay, shouldn't she be the one to step in and cover the shift? After all, it's basic nursing care, it's within her scope of practice, right? She acted as though she owns us, like she can FORCE one of us to stay. I am really tempted to file a grievance against her.
I personally do not feel like it is my obligation to cover for staffing shortages- especially since there is no incentive for doing so. We get no bonus, no overtime pay, just our regular wage, yet we are expected to put our life on hold and stay. I don't think so.
What do you think? How are situations like this handled where you work? And do you think I should complain about the nurse and her condescending behavior?
Thanks!