Feeling guilty b/c I thought she was okay

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Yesterday I had two 8th grade students in the same PE class get hurt. One girl (who I see often) twisted her ankle. Someone stepped on the other girl's big toe. They sat in the office in the jr high building for a hour before I could leave the elementary building (my main building) to check them out. They each had ice bags and the affected foot elevated on chairs when I arrived.

I didn't think either of them were seriously injured. They chatted casually with each other and cried if some one asked them about their injuries. There was not any swelling, discoloration or deformity. Cap refill was good and pulses were fine. I suggested that they return to class and they cried. I called each of the mothers. Moms had conversations with their daughters. Moms agreed that they should go back to class.

I gave the girls 10 minutes to get out of their PE clothes and get to class or they would be unexcused for that class (the last class of the day). I escorted the girls until they were back in class. I have to admit that I was a rather cold when talking to them because I wanted to cut through the drama that is so extreme in that class.

It turns out that the big toe was broken in 3 places (according to "Doc-in-a-box". How that happens from getting stepped on is still a mystery.

But I am feeling guilty for not being more sympathetic. Any body else have "oops" stories that they are not too proud to share? Thanks!

Specializes in Coronary Care, School Nurse.

Thanks for the support! I appreciate having fellow nurses that can understand where I am coming from.

I am considering apologizing for my attitude and leading to a teaching moment about the "cheerleader who cried injury" too many times.

Specializes in Cath Lab, OR, CPHN/SN, ER.
You did just fine. You can't always show too much sympathy for middle schoolers. They can be drama-feeders and if these are frequent fliers like you seem to think and you gave a complete assessment, and notified the parents, you did fine.

Totally agree. With the older kids, they can be very dramatic, and with the two together, they can feed off of the others emotions. There is a big difference between being a mean "B" and being stern and calm without babying a child.

lunden..are you a school nurse???? Evidently not! I've been a school nurse for 17 yrs..I would have done the same thing. The last few years it seems that we are turning our kids into wimps! Teaching them to complain and expect treatment for every minor thing! When you see the same faces everyday for everything it is time to be stern!!!

u don't know what i am! and it's time to let this go. i am tired of seing this post. this was days ago, why don't you move on!!!

Specializes in OB/GYN, peds hospice, home visit, school.
u don't know what i am! and it's time to let this go. i am tired of seing this post. this was days ago, why don't you move on!!!

Hey, if this thread is making you crazy, :banghead: don't read it, let it go. We are expressing our opinions, :twocents: as you had stated in one of your earlier posts.:yeah:

Granted some advice is better than others...

I have found this thread valuable, and a thank you to the OP for bringing up the issue. Hang in there School Nurses!:bow:

Closing the thread since the OP has received a great deal of support and further personal exchanges will only add tension to the forum. It's time for everyone to move on.

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