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Is it even normal to be excited to go to work or is that asking to much? I've usually dreaded or been half scared going to work and now I'm in a position where I'm not dreading or scared but I'm sure not excited. To me it's a good job (school nurse) and there are aspects I enjoy (along with a lot of nuisances) but at the end of the day it's just a job and not a calling. This job works well for my family and my personality but I'm constantly wondering "what if". My mom loved her job and working (a different profession) and I know a few people who love what they do but I'm not sure if it's the norm or if I should just be content with good enough. Maybe it's just me...
Expecting sweeping love and excitement from work is expecting too much. Being happy when good things happen is fine, but unreasonable expectations set you up for disappointment.
I am satisfied with my job. I don't always look forward to going in, especially when the bed is warm and it is cold and dark outside.
Some people really love their jobs. I suspect that is the nature of the person, not always the job.
If I could quit nursing today, I would and never look back. I have been an RN for almost 25 years and I am VERY ready for a mid-life career change but am not trained and do not have any experience doing anything else and cannot afford to go back to school with our daughter in college. I am kind and compassionate to the residents where I work, because it's certainly not their fault that I'm burned out, but I could and would leave it all today and not miss it one iota.
So I guess the answer is no, I do not look forward to going to work. I felt this way with hospital nursing, hospice nursing, dialysis nursing, and (currently) memory care nursing. I picked the wrong profession.
I enjoy certain aspects of my job. I manage a unit in LTC. I enjoy educating residents and staff. I enjoy physician rounds.
I do not enjoy the endless forms and all the meetings we have to attend. Work is work. There are many other pursuits that I would follow if I had the financial means. I would also work casual instead of the full time hours I'm currently working.
Nola009
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I'm glad I have a job, but I wouldn't say I look forward to going into work. It's just okay.