My neighbor was found sitting in his living room unresponsive, so his wife called 911. When medics showed up, did a respectful, gentle "slow code" on this 90-something man. It was about the realization that life only goes so far and compassion for the widow. Thx God they didn't take her beloved husband out of the home they'd raised their children in in a black bag. It was about kindness and decency. I saw it, and told his daughter that he went in a very dignified way. Sure he would have wanted it like that. There is a place for this.