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Was coming off my shift tonight, trying to wrap everything up on a heavy day, as usual. A new admit comes in and the drop off ER nurses were asking for the nurse that was going to take the patient so they could give her report -- and report on drips on other what seemed like more complicated issues.
I went and got this nurse, told her the nurses were here to give her report, and she then proceeded to bite my head off. "Why can't You do it?" She snapped. I told her I was sorry, but I'm going off shift and this IS your patient coming in. It was not a patient of MINE that I was handing to her -- it was an entirely new admit.
Later I approached her and told her it hurt to have her be so harsh over this matter. She immediately tore into me saying that I was being rude to her, that I should have been able to "take the report," and then she started in about how some of the night nurses complain that I pass work on . . . which seemed to me to be an entirely separate issue.
All I could follow was that she felt I should have taken the report, and done what? I dont
't know -- it was HER patient for the night shift!
This nurse has never liked me and I know that. But her manner of communication was to completely tear into me, and as soon as I tried to explain myself, she turned her back on me and walked off. This is typical for her -- seems to be a "cultural" thing -- which I don't get, I'm sorry.
You can have your "cultural" behaviors -- but some behaviors are just plain RUDE and immature -- as is turning your back on someone as they are trying to explain themselves and open up lines of communication to resolve the matter.
Anyway, I really, really want to bring this up to someone in management. I just absolutely am not going to tolerate someone, a fellow nurse on my unit, treating me that way. I can take jabs, I can take teasing, I can take a lot -- but I am not going to take someone treating me this way.
Fellow nurses, all I can say is when coming onto a new shift, realize that nurses may have worked very hard that day, and to tear into them for something without even giving them the benefit of a doubt is just passive aggressive nonsense. Just makes me SO mad that anyone would treat another co-worker so rudely.
But I really want to lodge a complaint against her -- one because it is wrong, and two, because I don't want to tolerate it. I don't believe that sort of behavior belongs in the workplace. What exactly should I do?