Discouraged nurse

Nurses LPN/LVN

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Hi everyone,

I am an LPN working in a family medical clinic. I love being a nurse and working in family medicine but recently I am becoming more and more discouraged because of the comments I receive because I do not work in hopsital or acute care. I am always told " Your job does not make you a real nurse or a " medical office assistant could do my job". I still d nursing skills and majority of my job is critical thinking. Anyone could measure vital signs or do weight/height or do health history but as a nurse I have the medical background to understand what a patient is sick with based on their symptoms. I am just frustrated with being told I am not a real nurse. Does anyone else that works in a clinic feel this way? I try to push it away as much as I can but it is starting to get to me. I feel like maybe I made a mistake by going into community nursing or clinic nursing and I should have gone to the hospital or acute care instead.

( I didn't go into the hospital or acute because I did not like it during nursing school and I knew I wanted to go into ltc or clinic nursing)

Specializes in Med nurse in med-surg., float, HH, and PDN.

Sometimes you should just smile and say, "Talk to me after you've completed LPN training and passed your boards," and walk away, still smiling.

Thank you to all of you for your amazing suppportive and eye opening responses! You guys do not know how much I appreciate all of your kind words :)

All of you guys are 100% right. I am a nurse and no matter what anyone else says I have my license to prove it! And I know what I do everyday is appreciated and valued.

In a way I think I won the lottery with the job I have.

I have always been a insecure person and have always cared about what others think of me but I am slowly but surely coming to realize that the only opinion that matters is my own.

I recently was just asked to move to a new clinic that is apart of a big company in the city I live in with 3 of the doctors that I work with currently at the new clinic so to me that validates that I am a good nurse and my work is appreciated!

Specializes in Med nurse in med-surg., float, HH, and PDN.

Yeah, you've got it now; if you live your life to please or impress others, then you aren't leading YOUR life. You are the only you there is! Everyone has their niche(s), if they are lucky...and that's a good thing. It really does take all kinds to make the world go 'round.

I do PD, 1:1 with 90+ year old people in varying states of mental and physical health. I've been told by many, "How do you do it? I couldn't do it!" Some may say this kind of nursing is not nursing; more like babysitting.

I've done all kinds of nursing in a wide variety of services/departments, and now I am done with my nursing career. But I do work part time as a CNA. (lousy pay!) I do it because I still LOVE making people feel better, making them comfortable, and giving them some enjoyment; it's nice they can spend their day with a friendly, capable, knowledgeable, caring, warm-hearted and amusing person. (ME!) If you were a 90 year old who doesn't have much family, and few peers around, you would know how precious and valuable *I* am.

Yet, if you put a high tech NICU nurse in my situation, they might freak out.

Same thing if you put ME in an office with phones and computers, doing triage; I would be the one going berserk, maybe even start feeling 'postal'.(!)

We all have our own gifts to give the world, however big or small, high or low tech...

Who it was that said this, I can't remember, but it's a very freeing thought, and it goes like this:

"What you think of me is none of my business."

The nursing field in general seems to be veryy cut throat, I think woman tend to get on power trips and be very competitive. For what? If you're an LPN you're an LPN and if you are an RN then you are making more money so congrats why belittle others) but anyways... Im an MA currently in an RN program so you think LPN's get **** on imagine MA's! ha. I worked one place where MA's and LPN's were always head to head horrible to each other. We all work hard. You are a nurse you have a nursing LICENSE. I am excited about school but already not looking forward to the snarky remarks I know will come. The woman empowering other woman in the medical field doesnt seem to be encountered often, which develops a big communication gap and interferes with care, its too bad. Good Luck!

Specializes in TBI and SCI.

Who cares what someone tells you. If you like what you do, stay. If you don't like it and feel YOU aren't using your nursing skills then leave. Nursing has a lot of different paths- someone needs to be a nurse in a clinic, so right now it's you. Later on if you don't like it and want to do more than you switch.

I personally didn't like my hospital rotations but I like my advanced long term/ sub acute rotations best. People tell me I should work in a hospital, they are hiring blah blah. I'm like no I don't like it, from my rotation at one hospital i didn't like it. Seemed boring to me. Now I work in a sub acute and love it. I don't have plans on getting my rn yet, mostly because I like bedside care and don't want to do any administrative work but also.... I don't want Togo into kore debt haha. LPN/ LVN make good money, you just need experience and find the right spot.

Don't listen to other people, do what makes you happy

Specializes in Psych, Corrections, Med-Surg, Ambulatory.
The nursing field in general seems to be veryy cut throat, I think woman tend to get on power trips and be very competitive. For what? If you're an LPN you're an LPN and if you are an RN then you are making more money so congrats why belittle others) but anyways... Im an MA currently in an RN program so you think LPN's get **** on imagine MA's! ha. I worked one place where MA's and LPN's were always head to head horrible to each other. We all work hard. You are a nurse you have a nursing LICENSE. I am excited about school but already not looking forward to the snarky remarks I know will come. The woman empowering other woman in the medical field doesnt seem to be encountered often, which develops a big communication gap and interferes with care, its too bad. Good Luck!

A bad culture can thrive in any workplace. When uncivil behaviours are tolerated, the civil people move on and those who thrive on drama and snark stay and make life hell for newcomers. This is usually a function of poor leadership and has nothing to do with sex, race, religion, etc. To state otherwise is bigotry.

My answer to these comments would be, "why would you say that?" followed by just a smile and a silent wait for a reply.

The other trick I've used when somebody makes a "poison dart" comment, is to say, "Sorry? What was that, I didn't quite hear you".....most people are too embarrassed to repeat a spiteful remark.

If you keep in mind that people who are driven to make spiteful comments must feel crappy about themselves, it helps. If you feel good about yourself, there is no desire or drive to try and drag other people down; quite the opposite - you want to see people succeed.

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