"Can you do something about this?"

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I'm in my second year of school nursing. I initially really loved it, but lately I've been feeling really burnt out by being made to feel like everything is my responsibility to fix.

A kid is acting out in the classroom, happens to have ADHD but is no longer receiving ADHD medication at school d/t a new treatment plan.... "nurse, can you do something about his behavior?"

A student sleeps in their first class of the day because he's tired in the morning, "nurse, can he come take a nap in the clinic?"

A student has severe social anxiety and hides in stairwells instead of going to class, "we need the nurse in the hallway now!!"

A parent is sending her kid to school with a "helmet" because he has seizures and doesn't want him to hurt his head if he falls, "nurse, can you call the doctor to get a note so we aren't liable in an adverse event?"

A kid has body odor, "nurse, I'm going to send my student because he reeks!!"

Almost never do the teachers or other adults in the building attempt to talk to the parents or their administrators before coming to me. Is this something you guys deal with too? And if so, how do you respectfully set boundaries so you're not losing your mind at the end of every day? I try to be a team player and help out when I can, but it feels like every day there's something else on my plate.

Specializes in pediatrics, school nursing.
7 minutes ago, EnoughWithTheIce said:

I had a student that fell out of his chair in class last week. I was called to the scene because "he can't move." When I got there, I assessed his head/neck/ back - all normal. I asked him if he could get up and he says "sure, I am fine."

Took him back to clinic, he had 1 red area on an arm. Teachers were SHOCKED I didn't at least send him home. He was fine, he talked to mom and we told her he was fine.

And we wonder why the kids are so whiney???? Nobody asked him if he was OK or could get up - they just panicked and called me.

I just want to yell over the PA "kids are not as fragile as they appear."

I think teachers are super worried about being sued; They have become reliant on us as school nurses to bear the burden of assessment and decision making. If we all disappeared, their minds would explode with worry and what-ifs...

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BTW-- I got a faxed letter from the neurologist for the helmet ?

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Specializes in IMC, school nursing.
32 minutes ago, Mavnurse17 said:

Ahh yes, this sort of happened to me as well. I was *urgently* called to bring a wheelchair to the bathroom because a boy was "on the floor and hurting!!" I get there and the kid is sitting on the floor but looks just fine. I ask him what happened, he tells me he felt nauseated so he wanted to sit down. I asked him if he could get up and walk (in front of the administrators and teachers that were horrified I wasn't on the ground with him taking vitals and administering aid), and the kid says yes!

Imagine their faces when he got up and walked next to me while I wheeled the empty chair back to the clinic with me.

You didn't even invoke the name of Jesus! You are a miracle worker.

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Specializes in School Nursing.
2 hours ago, EnoughWithTheIce said:

I had a student that fell out of his chair in class last week. I was called to the scene because "he can't move." When I got there, I assessed his head/neck/ back - all normal. I asked him if he could get up and he says "sure, I am fine."

Took him back to clinic, he had 1 red area on an arm. Teachers were SHOCKED I didn't at least send him home. He was fine, he talked to mom and we told her he was fine.

And we wonder why the kids are so whiney???? Nobody asked him if he was OK or could get up - they just panicked and called me.

I just want to yell over the PA "kids are not as fragile as they appear."

same thing has happened to me.

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