Bringing the entire family to ER

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Why oh why must patients bring the entire family to the hospital's ER? For support? Yeah right, most of the time they are either arguing or chit chatting about who aunt sally just remarried... again. Are they bringing them because they are familiar with their medical condition? Yeah, right.... most of them start telling you about their own medical problems, not the patient being seen. Do they bring them just to take up space and annoy the nurses... yup.. that's it .. that's the one.

Now, mind you I don't mind patients having family with them. They are useful to both patient and staff. I'm just venting about bringing 15 of them. Often the young children are running around touching things they have no business touching, screaming and disturbing other patients. And yes, I know there are all kinds of childcare issues that may necessitate bring young one, but come on, use some common sense.

And my final gripe is when the whole fam damily wants to be seen. Mom: I've had a sore throat for 2 hours and I need to be seen. And as long as we are here, little Johnnie has had a cough for 2 weeks and little Susie has had vomiting and diarrhea for 1 1/2 weeks and baby Neil who is 3 weeks old today has had a fever of 102.5 for 3 or 4 days. Now notice, and this is consitent, that mom has had symptoms for 2 hours while the kids have suffered for weeks. And the babe.... let's not have the child seen with that fever on it's own merit.. only when mom can't tolerate her poor little sore throat.

Maybe they think there will be a group discount or something? Maybe even buy one get one free.

Oh.. and how about all those unattended children roaming the Er willy nilly.... ugh... that's another thread... I'm done venting...lol

We have phones in every room too. Then this year they decided to put tv's in everyroom with a dvd player. You know your patient is h bent on abusing the system with they bring in their favorite movie, smuggle in a beer, get all comfy for some mystery rash that disappears every time he gets to the er.

Humh!

Specializes in Emergency Room.

nuh uh... you are pulling our legs!! tvs AND dvd players? ohmygod.. what was administration thinking? and where on earth is your ER getting all this money? It's all we can do to get a new mattress when one cracks.... actuallly still waiting... oh well....

Specializes in Specializes in L/D, newborn, GYN, LTC, Dialysis.

Heck you ought to come to OB where the biggest spectator sport in medicine/nursing takes place? ever try to cram 12 family members/friends into an LDRP? about as much fun as it would be in an ER cubicle...........ugh.

Specializes in 5 yrs OR, ASU Pre-Op 2 yr. ER.

Personally, if i were in the "birthing position", i would not want my whole family in there. I mean it's bad enough to have your knees in your face and wearing nothing from the waist down (i'm fairly sure that you reach a point where you just don't give a rat's rear lol), but this is not the moment i want the WHOLE family in there.

Well, you would be surprised then Marie with how many women don't care that everyone in their family is in the room for vag checks, caths, and delivery. One of the last deliveries I did had boyfriend, boyfriend's Uncle, mother, mother's friend, friend's daughter . . . .I asked if she wanted them to leave during vag checks . . "no, it's ok".

I'm with you . . .I don't want anyone there except dear hubby, the doc and a nurse.

steph

Specializes in 5 yrs OR, ASU Pre-Op 2 yr. ER.

My family's close, but not THAT close LOL!

I swear, its true. I have no idea where the money comes from since administration is always complaining about frivolous spending. We get budget cuts constantly and the fiscal report always has us in the red but our frequent flyers without cable at home will always have Jerry Springer in the ER. Real nice. Admin says that it is all about patient satisfaction and that pts will not complain as much if they have something to do. I don't get it either. There is one plus though. I have toned up my arms since every time the ER is empty we all watch the excercise channel and workout together after chowing down on some Ben and Jerry's (low fat-ha)Cherry Garcia.

nuh uh... you are pulling our legs!! tvs AND dvd players? ohmygod.. what was administration thinking? and where on earth is your ER getting all this money? It's all we can do to get a new mattress when one cracks.... actuallly still waiting... oh well....
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