Balance

***I am going to break this into sections, hopefully to give a snapshot of details about my situation.***

Is it always my responsibility to make things work?

I feel like no one takes any stock in being the other half of the equation. No one cares how much time and effort you are putting into your patients, but be dammned if you don't come out of that room and offer to rubs your techs feet afterwards? Or make sure you don't interupt "movie time" on the computer?

Ugh.

Rant off.

I hear you, but I don't just think it applies to the techs, many nurses could be covered by this too! I am not one of the socialites on our shift and since many of my friends have moved to days, I am really feeling isolated lately! Part of it may be me, I have a wierd sense of humor and a lot of the crap that is fun to my coworkers is not funny to me and vise versa I am sure. I am not interested in planning weddings, getting drunk or having babies. I am interested in a lot of other things like politics, (which I choose not to discuss at work), school, grandkids and traveling. I am a lot older than most of my coworkers and I think many of them see me as an oddity. When I share stuff I do on vacation etc. they are shocked that I enjoy those things like horseback riding, jet sking and rock concerts. I tell them "sorry I haven't taken up knitting." Other folks my age know that we don't die just because we pass 55. I mean comeon' now we are the original rockers! Most times it doesn't bother me, but sometimes I do catch some attitude. Sometimes I tell them about it, other times I address the issue in a very professional manner and keep going, sometimes I just let it slide!

I recently made a decision to get in line to go to day shift. More people my age work days and my sleep is really suffering. I also think you get more support on days as there are more techs available.

Anyhow, I know the best we can do will not make things perfect and for those of us who are not the most social of animals or who may be a little unique may always find things not completely to our liking. All in all, I love my job and have a few :yeah:great co workers along with those that are okay and the ever present jerks of course!

Mahage

Thank you for the great responses. I actually took sometime out tonight and talked to a few of the techs on our shift and it was a really good time. Found out that things on days are a lot different from our little world on nights.

Tait

In LTC, i was the charge nurse, and the CNA's worked for me. I always explained the reasons behind my asking them to do anything, so that they would know there was a logic behind my requests. In the event that they still refused however, i simply stated that i was their boss, and they had to do it. That sounds harsh maybe, so let me give an example. I once had a patient with dementia that had wet herself. I told her i would have someone with her immediately. I told the aide to see her next, and the aide refused and said it wasnt fair to the other patients. I explained that this patient was a fall risk and likely to try and get out of bed, which was not the case with the patient he wanted to see next. He still refused in the face of this logic so i told him it was not an option, and of course he did what i said.

At my next job in a hospital, there was a nurse mgr on the floor, so i wasnt necessarily in charge of my techs. As a result, i found myself often doing tasks they should have already completed, while barely having enough time to do my own job. The techs, on the other hand, spent lots of time on the internet shopping and surfing. There were moments where some techs tried to get huffy over a request, and i handled it, but i certainly never felt comfortable with their work ethic nor my lack of authority to ensure that they did their jobs. They are lucky to be in a hospital rather than a nursing home where there would be no time to play on the internet, and no internet to play on. I dont care what people do with their down time, so long as they complete their job, but i believe nurses should always have the role of supervisor over the techs, and assert that role. Just because i didnt need to be told what to do when i was a CNA doesnt mean that that applies to everyone. Those techs that all leave together on your dayshift are a prime example.