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Im currently a beginning nursing student part of a fast-tracked course.
one of the reasons, that i commenced this course, firstly is for patient care, secondly to be able to one-day provide for my family and kids....which i ain't having yet...still single.
this is my point.....
still searching for Miss Right....
the question is are females at all attracted to male nurses?
or seriously should i just hush it all up, enjoy the status in the community of being a healthcare professional,
enjoy the pay, and live well...........but direct myself to a more male dominated profession for females to respect me, such as do a specialisation as a paramedic?
i just don't know, but certainly want my future female partner not to take the mickey out of me.
is it just better to mebbe, focus on other healthcare professionals as potential partners, as they would be more understanding.
romantically challenged.........a tough question.......would respect anyone with some input....because this one
is a thorn in my side.....i sometimes feel that my masculinity is being threatened in the eyes of other females...
that need to compensate in other areas such as ....ambulance volunteering (which I love!)...or doing house renovations and DIY projects (which I also enjoy for the relaxation of it all).
any takers for this difficult question?
My head is spinning round and round and round.
Future healthcare professional.
I am a man who is entering nursing school in the fall. I can tell you from experience that just mentioning nursing school to many females gets a favorable response. The fact is, as many have stated before, it doesn't matter what your job is. If you are an attractive, funny, intelligent, and confident guy (being interesting doesn't hurt) you will attract women. I have had all sorts of jobs, some of which were very manly and others extremely female dominated and have never had trouble attracting women with any of them. In fact I am making a career change from selling cars/being the general manager of a used car dealership. EVERYONE thinks car salesmen are scum bags (mostly true) and I still attracted women. One of which I sold a car to and dated for about 6 months. Women don't care about your job if you don't make your personality revolve around it. On a lighter note, if the healthcare in Australia is that dire I may need to look into some travel work, I hear Australian women are top notch hahahaha
I'm going to be brutally honest, and probably come across as impolite, here. I apologize in advance if you take this as offensive or rude. I'm a male who is going to start nursing school in August and, frankly, I don't care what women think of my profession. I've wanted to be a nurse since I watched my grandfather battle cancer when I was only five years old, and I wouldn't change my goals and desires for any amount of money. Granted, I want to be a trauma or ICU nurse, but I didn't pick those fields because I thought women would be more attracted to them. If you are really that petty and shallow, then maybe nursing isn't for you. You shouldn't care about whether women are going to like you or be attracted to you because you are a nurse. In fact, if a woman is so shallow that she bases her impression of you strictly on your job, then you probably don't need to be with her. Being a nurse is about having the desire to heal people, ease pain, comfort families, and advocate for your patients. It isn't about attracting a woman who you find sexy. If you are this concerned with what nursing will do to your, "reputation" then maybe you should save yourself the trouble and not go to nursing school.
Most of the male nursing students in my program give me the heaves. Creepy personalities and not very attractive. I have met some attractive ones at the hospital but it's fairly rare. I probably wouldn't be interested in dating someone in the same occupation, but may not have anything to do w/ being male nurse, just not interesting to be in the same job I think.
most females love a man who can empathize and LISTEN :)
Oh and in my experience, most male nurses do not want to stay a bedside nurse. Many want to become CRNAs....they want the pay of an MD and possibly to escape the "female" dominate culture of nursing. I agree with the previous poster, most of the guys in my nursing class were a little sketchy. All of them said they wanted to be CRNAs. Turns out a lot of them tried to get into med school but didnt have the grades. Of course I am generalizing so I apologize to all male nurses out there who do not meet this stereotype. I have met some really kind and sweet male nurses. Actually, they do get beat up on because they have more muscle. I feel bad that sometimes they get the heavier patients, both in health and in weight. I respect any male or female who will takes on the nursing profession no matter the motive. It is a tough job!
I definitely feel that all women may feel some sort of attraction to male nurses. Why a lot of males never pursue Nursing, even though they find themselves interested in it, is beyond me. I don't find myself feeling deeply attracted to male nurses for their occupation - if that makes any sense? But every time I see a male nurse I do have a deeper respect for seeing them as a nurse, because of the jokes that are immaturely made about men becoming nurses, etc.
I'll say that after recently becoming single, I have had a lot more of the nurses/techs/RT/Phleb talking to me. Word travels fast in a hospital apparently.
I dont think it is because of what I am, but it is because of how i treat people and interact with them. Im extremely nice and courteous to everyone that I work with and the pts and I think people see that as more of a genuine quality then "oh look a guy thats a nurse, thats hot".
And wow I hope this doesnt come across as narcissistic and vein
I'll say that after recently becoming single, I have had a lot more of the nurses/techs/RT/Phleb talking to me. Word travels fast in a hospital apparently.I dont think it is because of what I am, but it is because of how i treat people and interact with them. Im extremely nice and courteous to everyone that I work with and the pts and I think people see that as more of a genuine quality then "oh look a guy thats a nurse, thats hot".
And wow I hope this doesnt come across as narcissistic and vein
I'm sorry to hear things didn't work out with your girlfriend.
MimiK
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