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hello, i'm writing from new zealand. it's really interesting reading your posts - usually i write in the hospice section but i thought i'd 'come over' to talk to you geriatric experts.
last week i looked after an elderly lady who'd been admitted during the night with urinary sepsis. she was from a rest home and quite dependant for her adls; she had some dementia. the decision (by the husband, son and doctors - i wasn't there so i don't know who had the most 'sway' in the discussion) was for no antibiotics, no fluids, no feeding. she was 'cast' in bed, being turned two hourly - it seemed the relatives expected her to die.
do you have this scenario often in your work?
i'm not 100% sure that what we were doing was morally acceptable: it seems 'murky' ethically to me.
jeanette:stone