:stone hi, i just had a family member to pass away after years(>5) of lying in a ltf. he was born mr, but had a happy growing up life. for 7 years he slowly couln't recognize ne one. he got a trach, feeding tube, catheters, o2. he was taken such good care of. wonderful job. i don't know why he hung on so long. they finally decided no more hospitalizations when getting worse. no code, and keep comfy. they kept antibiotics when they could give per tube. my grief was my inlaws refused to give up the feedings. i think this was what made him hang on, but for what?!?! :uhoh21: she could not stand the thought of him not eating?!?!. like he could taste it.(she's like 300 lbs) thank god, he( the great lord of host) decided the take him home. i know he a wearing a crown of gold and jewels. he deserves it if ne body does. he could not make decisions for himself and he was at the mercy of someone elses decision. he could have passed on from this world to another one so much sooner. only god knows why. but for your question, i don't think it inhumane to allow someone to pass on peacefully and comfortably. it's not like they will ever be able to get up and dance again or smile at you with knowledge of what they are smiling at. there is a better place, with no suffering.