A doctor helps children change their gender

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What do you think, if a little kid wants to be a different gender, should they start hormone therapy right away? I was a tomboy as a girl and wanted to be a boy, but it was a passing phase. I grew up to be a sexually normal adult woman who doesn't like make up, likes gender neutral clothes, and is totally satisfied with being a woman.

http://www.boston.com/bostonglobe/ideas/articles/2008/03/30/qa_with_norman_spack/?p1=Well_MostPop_Emailed5

Last year, the pediatric endocrinologist started a new clinic at Children's Hospital Boston; it is one of a few in the world to give children treatments that change their bodies. Working on a model borrowed from Dutch researchers, Spack uses drugs to delay the first stirrings of youngsters' puberty, granting them a few more years before they develop bodies that are decidedly male or female. The effects of these puberty-blocking drugs are reversible; that is, patients can later change their minds. Unfortunately, this is not the case with hormones. Therefore, Spack prescribes estrogen and testosterone to only a few teenagers - after months of consultation with the patient, his or her caregivers, and psychiatrists. When kids take this step, they are rewriting their own future: The hormones have a powerful, pervasive effect, changing their height, breast development, and the pitch of their voices

This is from the childrens hospital website. It is the page about his gender services:

http://www.childrenshospital.org/clinicalservices/Site2280/mainpageS2280P0.html

The Gender Management Service (GeMS) Clinic at Children's Hospital Boston is a new multidisciplinary clinic that treats the medical and psychosocial issues of infants, children, adolescents and young adults with disorders of sexual differentiation (DSDs). Many of our patients face medical issues that may make it difficult to determine their sex and may interfere with sexual and reproductive function. Therefore, we work closely with patients and their families to find the treatment that works best for everyone involved.

We are also the first major program in the United States that not only treats disorders of sexual differentiation, but also works with transgendered children and young adults.

I know it is a childrens hospital (lol. I would hope I knew that since I am a patient there) but I do not see why they mention infants. How can infants be sexually confused. I just learned in psychology class that kids don't understand they are a boy/girl and will stay that until they are 5 or 6.

I too was a tomboy. Maybe the problem isn't with the kids - it is with the definitions.

Let girls be tomboys without teasing them. Let boys play piano and dance without teasing them.

Then maybe they wouldn't have sex changes. They would be comfortable with who they were and with their bodies.

Maybe we are coming at this from the wrong end . . . . instead of changing the body - change peoples' expectations.

While I agree with your dream of a world in which gender is self-defined rather than societally imposed that is, unfortunately, a long way from being reality.

They don't understand until they're 5 or 6? Mine had it solid in their third year and never said anything about maybe they would be something else some day.

You know, the more I think about it, puberty postponement could be a very good idea for children with gender confusion. Having the "wrong" sex develop on you would be horrible. It wouldn't help you think, oh, I am really am a boy now. And it also beats change hormones and operations at the age of twelve or so. More time to resolve the issue can only help.

You know, there might be a much broader market for puberty postponement ... just ask the parents of tweens

I know it is a childrens hospital (lol. I would hope I knew that since I am a patient there) but I do not see why they mention infants. How can infants be sexually confused. I just learned in psychology class that kids don't understand they are a boy/girl and will stay that until they are 5 or 6.

When they talk about infants/babies I believe it is in relation to those born with one of the genetic disorders that cause ambiguous gender - as in the child is born with characteristics of both genders, an incomplete hermaphrodite. Often these children are assigned a gender at infancy/birth by their parents and the associated doctors. Or at least they have in the past.

Due to being so young when this decision has been made for them a number of these children grow up feeling that they are living in the body of the wrong gender. After having known somebody like this personally I believe that allowing them to have developed and identified with a gender before any surgery was attempted would have been of benefit.

Specializes in LTC/rehab, ED, med-surg.

I took Leslie's advice to heart and did a little reading...and found this. A mother's account of raising a transgendered child. Heartbreaking and poignant, it lends a whole new perspective to this issue for those of you who believe that a having a transgendered child equates to a raising a little girl being a tomboy. Not all things are so absolute, so black and white. Please read the following:

http://www.transkidspurplerainbow.com/pdf/nurtuting.pdf

When they talk about infants/babies I believe it is in relation to those born with one of the genetic disorders that cause ambiguous gender - as in the child is born with characteristics of both genders, an incomplete hermaphrodite. Often these children are assigned a gender at infancy/birth by their parents and the associated doctors. Or at least they have in the past.

Due to being so young when this decision has been made for them a number of these children grow up feeling that they are living in the body of the wrong gender. After having known somebody like this personally I believe that allowing them to have developed and identified with a gender before any surgery was attempted would have been of benefit.

Oh ok that makes sense. I was trying to immagine a "confused" infant. Not to say these children are confused but you know what I mean.

Devil Duckie, thank you for posting that link. Reggi is the child I saw on the video who truly did seem to be a girl in a boy's body. It is heartbreaking - what a hard road for Reggi and the whole family.

I took Leslie's advice to heart and did a little reading...and found this. A mother's account of raising a transgendered child. Heartbreaking and poignant, it lends a whole new perspective to this issue for those of you who believe that a having a transgendered child equates to a raising a little girl being a tomboy. Not all things are so absolute, so black and white. Please read the following:

http://www.transkidspurplerainbow.com/pdf/nurtuting.pdf

all the stories i've read, have been heartwarming and bittersweet.

rather than being abusive, these parents of transgenders, have sacrificed a great deal in painfully accepting their son is a dtr, dtr is a son.

delaying puberty gives them time and prevents an onslaught of despair when the androgens/estrogens savagely attack these kids bodies and psychs.

it's all about giving time, and more important, these kids, a chance.:redpinkhe

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