I was told I should change my major
- 0Okay, so I still need to finish my pre reqs to send in my Nursing School App. However, I have a problem: Complex Partial Seizures. They are not fully controlled and I get them every now and then. I get them during class sometimes and I am scared that I won't be accepted into the nursing program because of them. Granted, I do miss material and whatnot, but I get notes from friends and stuff. I always make up my work. My professors understand. I'm not a slow learner, I ca grasp material alright, but I was told by a RN that I will put patients life in danger and I will probably end up killing someone, and that they wouldn't want me working with them. That I am a liability. Mind you, I am an EMT. I work all the time and everything is squared away with that, I am an awesome tech (I think). I am losing confidence I suppose that I should continue with this major. Am I wasting my time?
I have wanted to be a nurse all my life, and now that I am 20 and in college and I have the opportunity to get my BSN eventually, I am told that I should just change my life goal? I still have a lot of time before I finish school, and I think that is enough of time for my brain to figure out that it needs to chill out. (Meaning med management)
Should I just reconsider being a nurse? This is what I want. I can do it, but will discrimination become a factor in this? Even if I get accepted into the Nursing Program, will my instructors there be as understanding as my professors are now?
Thanks, in advance.
- 0Mar 8, '13 by JustBeachyNurse, LPNWhat is the opinion of your treating physician/health care provider? Nearly all programs require a physical as a condition of enrollment. Therefore s/he will have to make a statement that you are medically cleared and able to participate in the nursing program (didactic/classroom and clinical) without restriction.
Start there. If you are not medically clear to participate in the program, accommodation by your professors will not be an issue.
- 1My neurologist says I am able to anything that any other person would do other than driving for 8 more months. Heck, she could just be saying that to raise my self esteem! Haha. Hypothetically, should I be cleared medically, and should I have an episode or something, would I be kicked out? I dont know if you would know but it's worth asking.
- 0Mar 8, '13 by JustBeachyNurse, LPNQuote from CourtM092Again it would go back to getting medically cleared by your personal physician/medical team. Just like if you didn't have a seizure disorder and say had a bad car accident while in nursing school, you would need medical clearance without restriction to return to the programMy neurologist says I am able to anything that any other person would do other than driving for 8 more months. Heck, she could just be saying that to raise my self esteem! Haha. Hypothetically, should I be cleared medically, and should I have an episode or something, would I be kicked out? I dont know if you would know but it's worth asking.
Fortunately being able to drive a vehicle is not a requirement for nursing school. .
- 0Mar 8, '13 by pmabrahamCourtney, focus on the positive.
Meet Tim Harris - America's Only Restaurant Owner With Down Syndrome - Inspirational Video is about a young man that runs a restaurant with Down Syndrome.
You shared your intellect is not the issue. As an EMT, at least to me, you prove your heart (the one that counts) is not the issue.
Get references, keep the positive outlook, and look for ways to make your dream happen.
And Courtney, what you are going through may help you be an extreme encouragement (I'm told the word, encourage means to impart bravery and courage) to others going through similar experiences.
Should you succeed in your quest, whose to say you will not be able to help others in ways that nurses who have never gone through what you go through. You will have insights and experiences others will not have.
- 0Mar 9, '13 by nursefellyCourtM092, I want to tell you to never give up on your dream or doubt your choice because of something someone told you. I have Bipolar Disorder and had a mental health worker who once told me that I shouldn't be a nurse because I wouldn't be able to handle the stress/odd schedules. I was also an EMT and I loved every second of it. I love the interaction with the patients and have been told I have very good bed-side manner. When that stranger told me that I should reconsider my dream to be a nurse, I was heart broken and self-doubting. In fact, I did change my major at first. I was so unhappy about the change because I knew I belonged in nursing. Now, I am finally applying to nursing school and ready. It took earning a Bachelor's degree in Psychology for me and some long night conversations with my husband to finally believe my disorder wouldn't make me a bad nurse. I think the fact you want to be a nurse so badly is the reason you will be a fantastic nurse. Sometimes, people really do not understand something they do not have. They're quick to think that a disorder like yours or like mine make us a liability, someone who can't complete a task... not because we can't but because of their lack of understanding.
Wow, I think I rambled a bit more than I meant to but I just want to say that you should never give up on your dream because of someone else. I did (for a while) and regretted every second of it.