I am 19 wks pregnant with my first. I am feeling increasingly uncomfortable with my MD and would like input if I should find a new one. I am not very experienced with OB care so I don't know if he is out of line. He is a family practice physician.
The first problem I have is with that AFP test that I was under the impression you have the "option" of having. He tells me at 14 weeks, "come back in 2 weeks and get this blood test done." I ask what it is for and he says, "to test for birth defects." I told him I wasn't really sure I wanted it done and he says "well you don't have to but it is better." He acted like it was no big deal, and from what I learned about it and read about it, I feel that the negatives outweigh the positives for me to have it. Also I have known of 2 people that had a false positive and were put through alot of unnecessary stress and expense.
My next appt. 1 mo later he walks into the room and says something to the effect of "go to the lab and get your blood drawn right now and then come back in a week." Again, I ask why and he tells me. I told him I decided not to have it and he says "why not - are you afraid to get your blood drawn?" I told him my experiences with the false positives and he says"it is very uncommon" and then really tries to pressure me into having it done and then seems upset when I did refuse. Basically, from what I have read, the false positives aren't uncommon. Also, I am a little unsure of my LMP and the dating sonogram put me 1 week ahead of my actual due date (what I thought it was), and from further research, I find out the age of the fetus is very imp in terms of interrpreting the results.
Okay, so then he goes to doppler the fetal heart rate, and gets it on the first try. I just don't think it sounded as fast as last time and I know I tend to be on the tachycardic side (esp after what was said) so just a hunch but I don't think he even auscultated the fhr. What I learned was you are supposed to be careful of that.
Also, he doesn't seem to be very communicative. So I am just wondering - if complications develop is he even going to tell me what is going on??
Am I being paranoid? I don't exactly know what the norm is. Can anyone give me any more advice on how to choose an OB and how you can find out what their background is?
Thanks!