Dealing with doctors.....

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Well I think one of our doctors is mad at me. In a way I really don't care. But I really like this guy as a doctor and I would like to establish a repoire with the group of doc's that we regularly work with. Here's the situation......

Dr. X like to schedule his inductions on the days he is on call so he can deliver his baby's. Well that's admirable right? So g2p1 shows up for induction 0700 (supposed to be here btwn 0500 and 0600 but he doesn't tell her that) I assume care from another nurse around 0830. She is 1, long, high. That's fine he comes in not long after I assume care to AROM.... he is unsuccessful. He doesn't come back 'til about 1330 Pit is at 20 (has been for several hours) 1-2, 30%, -3. He AROMs, clear fluid, He places and IUPC and says turn pit to 10 and go up as needed. I leave it at 10 for a while and ctx kinda space out so I start going up by 2's. She get's 10 of nubain. She had been trying to go natural but about 1530 she is asking for something else for pain. We discuss epidural .... she is 2-3, 70%, -3. I page anesthesia. We get epidural about 1630. At 1800 the doctor is back she is 6-8, 100, -2..... Before he checks her he questions me about why I didn't check her before she got her epidural.... I did check her before epidural... it's on the board.... it's in my notes. After he checks her he says, "it looks like it won't be long so I think I'll just hang around". I set up a delivery table. Talk to the patient.... she is very nervous and would like me to stay for delivery..... I try to be optimistic but don't promise anything.... At 1830 she is Rim, 100..... doctor knows and is in breakroom. At 1850 she is complete and complaining of pressure. Dr is notified...he is no longer in the hospital but says to go ahead and push her. I break down the bed and we start to push. Her epidural is pretty dense so she doesn't do too well the first couple of pushes. 2 nurses from nights come in to assist and one of them is very "encouraging". Well she pushes a few more times and during the last one she does great and we can see about a good amount of head. So we tell her not to push anymore till the dr gets here. She doesn't but the next ctx brings the baby down more until the head is really crowning good. I'm the only one with sterile gloves on and yep you guessed it the next ctx out comes the head. Loose nuchal cord.... I reduce it.... with help from the other RN and then encourage mom to go ahead and push.... well about this time the doctor show's up to do the rest. Well I say congrats to mom and dad.... admire baby for a few..... then leave because it's about 1910. As I'm leaving I visit with a couple of the other nurses and they ask.... "was he mad"..... It had never occured to me that he might be.... anyway. I go get changed and start to leave but see him sitting at the desk and he's is grilling the other nurses about "what happened" etc.... I walked up behind him and he wouldn't even talk to me..... what the he!!

..... anyway I keep wondering over and over what I could have done differently. I know I'm new. But I was not the only nurse there.... I just happened to be the one at the end of the bed. I think He would like to blame it on me because I'm new and he thinks I'm stupid or something. I don't understand what the problem is because there was a good outcome. I did not intentionally deliver this baby.... should I have tried to hold it in? I am very frustrated....

What are your thoughts....

I LOVE the "code pink" idea. If more nurses stuck together and did not let MD's become obnoxious, we'd all be better off. Nurses have to remember that MD's are just people like the rest of us and NO ONE has the right to be rude to another, no matter what their station in life.

The code pink idea is good, but we already use that to mean a code blue on a baby in our facility! We'd get the whole recus team:)!!

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exaaaaaaaaaactly code pink in most OB venues MEANS INFANT ABDUCTION...

but a CODE WHITE means show of force where I work...nurses, security etc.

Specializes in cardiac, diabetes, OB/GYN.

I have found, as no doubt, have many of you, that some male OB docs are into controlling women big time...And that usually also included the nurses..Its his problem....

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i found a tagline for ya that works like sjoe's (bill cosby's words):

Blueeyes....I like the Cosby quote!!! How true, how very true! Also tends to be a hard lesson to learn!!!

Specializes in ER.

He shouldn't have induced her, or ruptured her, or left the hospital when she was pushing, or ignored you if he had a problem with what you did. Especially as a new person he should be letting you know when things did not go to his satisfaction, and shouldn't be talking about you to someone else.

He's a jerk, keep that in mind the next time he is unhappy.

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it is my new mantra, acuteobrn....

i will say it anytime i feel stretched beyond my limits...certainly we do NOT exist to please the doctors....just to do our jobs safely, efficiently and to the best of our ability. pleasing these guys is not even in my top 10 list anymore. i have learned.:devil:

Docs are paid big bucks to have the responsibility. Remember that the next time one of them gives you grief. Remind them that they have the responsibility. You, of course, have yours, too, but sometimes they need a gentle reminder.

I had a nurse just like you when I had my 4th and final baby 14 years ago. The doctor induced my labor, came in and checked I was at 7cm and he decided to go to his office across the parking lot to see a pt. because I had plenty of time. About 10 minutes after he left it was time for her to arrive. The nurse tried to reach the doctor but was unsuccessful. She delivered Rachel and I could not have asked for a better delivery. She was wonderful. Although her name is not on the official birth certificate her name is on the cute one that the hospital gives you. It was a wonderful experience. Keep up the good work and although the doctor may have issues I am sure the mother does not.

Wow, do I know where you are coming from....have one doc at our hospital who you can pretty much count on not getting there in time to deliver although he has been notified in plenty of time only to take his time getting there or coming in and telling us they have lots of timeand are not ready yet...and walks down the hall and we deliver the baby....and he wants to know what happened....duh....I know of several times he has come in and had to "catch" the baby barehanded....everyone on out unit has had the same thing happen....and I have had many new moms and dads tell us "You nurses did a wonderful job and we appreciate you so much".......

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