I have been a RN for about 5yrs now. I haven't worked for the last 1.5yrs as I've been in an intense graduate school program for advanced practice. I feel like I am having a (early) midlife crisis. I no longer feel like I'm where I'm supposed to be or doing what I should be doing. I have been working hard to get to where I am, but I also feel like I've had such tunnel vision and have always done what was expected and what was best (as opposed to focusing on what I actually enjoy doing and making a career out of that). Looking to the future fills me with dread. I am definitely reconsidering the graduate school choice, but also unsure whether to choose a different aspect of nursing or just completely start over. If time and money were no object, I would honestly choose something else entirely.
That however is only the tip of the iceberg. I have been sick for almost 2 months now. Not just cough, colds, flus but SICK. I am still being poked and prodded and medicated and sent to various specialists, but at this point they are still not sure what is wrong. I have had countless Dr appts and lab draws, and have had a few sick days since the time I have been sick. I have had very little energy and motivation, which has come across in my work as well. There have been comments that it seems like I've lost my drive and passion. Part of this is being sick, and part of this is true. I feel a little lost. My program faculty members are growing impatient with me and are starting to crack down. I was given the choice of either promising to stop being sick and shape up, or take a quarter off on medical leave. With still being sick and undiagnosed, I felt like I didn't have much choice but to take the medical leave. This has now extended my graduation even more (so I'm now a year away from being done). The other problem is that they feel I have been slacking off (which has been somewhat true but more so from being sick), so they have various new rules that I will be held to when I return. I feel that the rules they are setting forth are essentially setting me up to fail. In some ways, they are fair. But on the other hand, it is essentially don't EVER do anything wrong EVER again or you'll be dismissed. It feels like they are now looking for any way to dismiss me.
I know I am rambling and I apologize for that, but there are many factors to include and my thoughts are somewhat scattered. It essentially comes down to the fact that I don't want to be doing this anymore. I honestly don't know if it is even worth it to continue. BUT I have been out of work for awhile while in school and I have a LARGE student loan. Quitting is not a decision I take lightly. I also feel that I am almost being set up to fail, in which case maybe it is better to just cut my losses now as opposed to getting farther in debt, farther down the road, and with the black mark of being dismissed.
I need some unbiased advice!