Sorry Nurse Recruiters/Nurse Managers!

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As I receive rejection after rejection for nursing jobs, I feel the need to apologize to nurse recruiters/managers who overlook my BSN because I lack patient care tech experience.

I am sorry I could not afford to take a job as a tech making 7 an hour. You see while attending school part-time, I needed to maintain a home, equipped with mortgage payments, children and all the other responsibilities of wife and mother.

I m sorry you cant see that I carried a gpa over 3.0 even with the all the responsibilities I have.

I'm sorry that you cant see that for past 2 ½ years of nursing school, I stayed up late each night studying or preparing care plans while working 40 hours a week.

I'm sorry that you can't see how I worked tirelessly in every aspect of my life to obtain a second degree.

I'm sorry that you can't see that despite a lack of patient care experience I am mature, driven, focused, ambitious and hard working.

I'm sorry that you can't see that I passed by NCLEX exam with 75 questions in under one hour. Not because of exceptional knowledge, because I studied tirelessly!

I'm sorry that you can't see how I was complimented time and time again by not only my clinical instructors but more importantly the patients who I cared for. I wish you could hear the amount of times a patient or the family said "you are going to be great nurse."

I'm really sorry you can't see past this lack of experience and have formed a judgment against me before knowing me.

Specializes in Emergency.

Have to agree with mindlor on this one. The hiring manager knew me. Got the job.

Specializes in Emergency/Cath Lab.

Sadly I think what a lot of people miss is that you need to start "looking for a job" in school. After you are out, you lose so much face time with the nurses, managers, docs everybody that could help you get a job. Lets face it, the old saying of its who you know really is true. We always had meetings where we would discuss students on the floor and decide if we liked how they acted in clinical before job offers went out. Think of how much time you spend in clinicals, start talking to the nurses there, talk to the charges get yourself known.

Sadly once you are out of school and arent known in your hospital, you become just another name with a degree. Make yourself known before it is too late.

And yes students who are reading this, we really do pay attention. They always told me on the first day of clinical they already know who they want to hire. You can make yourself known for good or bad reasons.

This is all coming from someone who had no particular rough time through school. I didnt get the best grades but I did a few internships, worked my ass off in clinicals and damn near knew someone or worked with someone in every department. That landed me a job before I even was out of school and before I even took my NCLEX. I just knew how to work the system.

Specializes in NICU, Newborn Nursery, Pediatrics, CM.

I can definitely understand how you feel but having 30 years of exprience and no BSN gets me the same rejection. There is no happy medium.

Specializes in Hospice, Home Health, Med/Surg.

"That Guy" knows what he is talking about. :cheers:

Specializes in Medical.

I used to hire newly graduated nurses before. I would have been impressed with your experiences; struggling to pass NCLEX while working hard with personal matters. Hang on, better hospital awaits in the future for you.

I completely understand how you feel. I went into nursing knowing it would be extremely difficult to get a job in a hospital (thanks to this website). But, I did it anyway, lol. I realized it doesn't matter where your first job is. I will find a job somewhere and you will, too. It may be a few years before either one of us is in the place where we want to be, but we're just starting out. I've had nurses in the hospital tell me not to ever go into a long-term care facility because I'll never be able to get an acute care position in a hospital. Well, I could go to an acute care clinic and then to a hospital if that's what I want to do. I will probably end up in a physician's office geting paid less than I used to pay my employees in my previous field. That's okay because it's not forever. Broaden your scope of where you are applying. I'm sure you're thinking that you've applied everywhere, but you haven't. You also haven't been in the right place at the right time. I am taking the summer off because I can't afford daycare for three kids on a nurse's salary, but when I start my job hunt this fall I will make sure the people making the hiring decisions actually see me. I will not count on getting hired by just sending my resume out online. I'm also counting on my nursing school friends that do have jobs for networking. That's how a lot of last year's new grads got hired. As much as some of your classmates irritate the crap out of you, make sure you stay in touch and professional because you just never know!

I agree. While I appreciate that it's related to an RN's job, CNA experience should not be mandatory as a hiring requirement. There's this one CNA in my RN-ADN class, currently working as a a CNA in a LTC, and she has a boatload of bad attitudes. Aside from the acrylic nails and big hoop earrings she wears to work AND school (our school doesn't enforce their dress code.. even so, the dean of the program has told her once already to lose the fake nails.. she seems to be ignoring said dean..) This CNA has said in public that the only reason she wants to become an RN is to get paid more money and to be able to tell someone else to go wipe butts.. (currently she has said that she sits -on her butt- and plays with her iPhone most of the night on her 11-7 shift..)

I have my doubts that she will pass the NCLEX but OMG I feel sorry for anyone, co-worker or patient, who has to put up with her, now or in the future.

If you can relocate, do so. I used the same exact resume in a major metro area HUNDREDS if not over a thousand times and got nothing. Eventually, I gave in -used the same resume and cover letter(altered slightly for the job position) in a different area of the country and got a job and MANY interviews and phone calls. Seriously, it is not just poor resumes or interview skills. In some areas, esp CA, NYC/NJ, other big cities it is an employer's market and they have THOUSANDS of candidtates more qualified than you due to years of experience or big time connections- of course they will most likely take the new grad who was a cna on the floor for 2 years- won't even look at your resume. many places were hiring in house only , would/do not even look at outside candidates- post the position as a facade of some sort to appease some policy. and could do that. they know the employees work ethic,, faster getting the position filled etc.

Specializes in Hospice, Home Health, Med/Surg.

@Anotherone, what part of the country are you in, if you don't mind my asking?

Use any connection you have no matter how far fetched or shameless. a classmate who knew, to say the least..., a chief golden boy resident for an obscure program like dermatology( rarely saw the med surg floors) vouched for her and she got a job in a big teaching hospital med/surg floor, or someone whose mother worked in dietary- neither of these people were any more skilled then anyone else - do not even remember if either were cnas or not . Not just nurses or HR. but anyone who works in the nursing home/ hospital/healthcare.Maybe even your own dr is affiliated with a large hospital network. who knows. For all you know your neighbor's husband who works in transport is bff with the hiring manager in the icu. it does happen.

Specializes in Dialysis.

I worked as an NA during nursing school (with two small kids, a husband, poor self-esteem and going back to school 20 yrs later) because the local hospital came to our school and told us about the program where you work for them and you'd have preference for jobs when you graduated. Well, that didn't come true, the hospital I worked at as an NA wouldn't hire me because I didn't have RN experience - even though I worked for them for 1 1/2 yrs! I even had a personal contact with the hiring nurse of a particular unit and recommendation from nurses I had worked with, but they wanted only experienced RNs. So, I did the usual searching online, sending resumes with no call backs. Then I got business cards made - inexpensive but professional - got nice paper with matching envelopes for my resumes and kept the resume to one page by taking off some of what I thought was "irrelevant" past work experience and focused on "managerial" type of tasks I had with past jobs. I'd send the business card with the resume and I CALLED back within a week or two after sending my resume and I left messages and I'd keep calling until I actually got to talk to someone. I sent thank you notes after my interviews and even after speaking with someone on the phone. I bought a nice suit - navy, simple lines with a skirt and slacks so I could change it up for the second interview, crisp white ironed blouse. Appearance does matter. You need to look and act professional, not stuffy, but professional and personable. Like others have said, you have to practice being interviewed, you have to know what to say when they ask "tell me a time when you and an employee didn't agree on something" - all those darned "negative" questions. Be prepared and follow through with any leads you get.

Next, you will probably need to find somewhere nontraditional, since the hospitals aren't hiring GNs. Go to job fairs if they have them, if you know friends of friends that could possibly get your resume in, do it and send them thank you notes to people who help you. Where I live, experience was necessary to work in LTC, though I did know several of my classmates that got jobs in that field. I didn't want to work in LTC, but was just about to send a resume because I hadn't had any luck, then I got two interviews, with both offering me jobs. I chose a dialysis clinic over the hospital because of the location and hours. Luckily, I had some leverage (the other job offer) and was even able to get them to up the initial salary offer. That was liberating! I really like working there - almost 3 yrs later. It wasn't a place I would have thought of but I knew someone who had a friend that worked there and I contacted the person I knew and she contacted her friend (who I didn't know) and it got my foot in the door.

You just have to keep with it and be positive. Keep trying, it takes time and lot's of effort, and when you feel like giving up, you just have to keep going. Eventually, all your hard work will develop into something, maybe not what you expected, but somewhere to start. You may end up liking it, if not leave, at least you now have some experience.

Good luck, girlfriend!

@Anotherone, what part of the country are you in, if you don't mind my asking?

sorry, i do not want to get too specific for some sake of hiding my identity.lol. but I am from and still in the NE although a couple hundred miles apart from where I was. Some rural areas in the NE are hiring even new grads. doesn't have to be a tiny hospital either, there are some big teaching hospitals in rural or smaller areas, although not as common. no they are not desirable places to live if you are used to boston or nyc and like that, but you can get experience and in a few years apply to those hospitals.

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