Sick of getting treated like I can't do anything right!
- 1Hello everyone, I am a new nurse (have been working as a LPN for 4 months) and I am so sick and tired of my co-workers making me feel like I cannot even make a photocopy right!
Anytime I am doing something even the simplest things such as sorting through faxes on of the nurses come and takes them off my hand and do it herself looking at me like I am doing it too slow.. Why do older nurses have that need of constantly making sure that you know they do everything better or faster than you?? I am sure some of you are going to say they are trying to help, but that is not always the case. I cannot even make a phone call to a patient without having one of them trying to intervene on my conversation or making fun of my I am just irritated and depressed, I want to be left alone so I can do my job
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- 6Mar 1 by DragonPurrYou have to step up for yourself. Just tell whoever is trying to intervene, "I've got this" in a confident manner and keep doing what you are doing. If people are running over you, you are letting them. It can be hard when you are new, but people will treat you how you let them treat you. Eventually, it will click.
- 9Mar 1 by NF_eyenurse GuideOne of my favorite Eleanor Roosevelt quotes:
"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent."
I was 19 when I first entered the medical field, in medical records. There was an older women in the department who was the same way with me. Later, I transferred to another department (not because of her) and was met by another coworker who was the same way. As I worked with her for some time I learned to speak up for myself.
One day I said something and she shook her head and snickered and said softly to herself, "That's stupid." I immediately came back (in a firm voice) with "I am NOT stupid." She apologized. I feel like my back bone finally developed at that moment.
To stand up for yourself you don't have to be rude (like them) or play their games. You can be kind and professional. You need to be sure of who you are.
You know who you are.
Don't let anyone tell you (or make you think) otherwise.Last edit by NF_eyenurse on Mar 1
- 5Mar 1 by TheCommuter Senior ModeratorIn nursing, as well as in other occupations, people tend to pick on the coworker who seems like an easy target (read: the person who will not stand up to others or defend oneself from being picked at).
Some coworkers are never picked on because they've made themselves too difficult of a target by reacting unpleasantly when anyone tries to patronize or mistreat them. You must stand up for yourself or people will continue to walk all over you. Good luck!