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5 thoughts and statistics on nurse bullying

Written by Kelly Gooch | February 24, 2016

Sixty percent of new nurses quit their first job within the first six months due to the behavior of their co-workers, and nearly 50 percent of nurses believe that they will experience bullying at some time in their careers, according to research presented in a new e-book from Aurora, Colo.-based American Sentinel University.

The new e-book, "Dr. Renee Thompson's Series on Nurse Bullying," examines the roots of bullying and conflict resolution as Renee Thompson, DNP, RN, a nursing professional development/anti-bullying thought leader, shares her professional insight on how to best address and eliminate workplace bullying.

Here are five other thoughts and statistics from the e-book.

1. Nearly half — 48 percent — of new graduating nurses are afraid of becoming the target of workplace bullying.

2. In Dr. Thompson's research and observations, she identified two primary reasons why bullying is prevalent in nursing:

  • Nursing is a female dominated profession. "Theories suggest that age-old female 'competition' has shifted from competing over a man to competing over status, respect and position in the nursing environment. The same behaviors once witnessed between two women fighting over a man are the ones witnessed today in the behavior of bullies," Dr. Thompson wrote.
  • Nurses are an oppressed profession. Dr. Thompson noted that nurses are seen as a silent majority, which can bring about frustration. "Feelings of frustration, coupled with an increasingly complex and stressful job, can create environments where nurses 'take it out' on each other. Since nurses can't 'take it out' on administrators or physicians, the theory is that they take it out on the already oppressed, subservient group," she wrote.

3. Dr. Thompson identified the following as common overt bullying weapons:

  • Verbal criticism or name-calling
  • Intimidation
  • Blaming
  • Ethnic jokes or slurs
  • Finding fault
  • Threatening
  • Physical violence

4. Dr. Thompson identified the following as common covert bullying weapons:

  • Sabotage
  • Withholding information
  • Excluding others
  • Unfair assignments
  • Undermining
  • Downplaying accomplishments

5. Dr. Thompson's recommended action steps to address bullying are:

  • Name the behavior. "Bullies who feel a sense of power during their tirades gain momentum as they scream, yell or spread rumors and sabotage their co-workers. Naming the behavior as it occurs can stop things immediately and prevent an escalation of that behavior," Dr. Thompson wrote.
  • Document, document and document. "If you are being bullied, start a documentation trail. Keep a small notebook with you and write down dates, times, witnesses, verbatim comments, and any behaviors you believe undermine a culture of safety and a professional work environment," Dr. Thompson wrote. "Keep growing this documentation trail until you are at the point where you can file a formal complaint."

(STAFF NOTE: This was copied from Beckers Hospital Review. Full article can be found: 5 thoughts and statistics on nurse bullying)

Specializes in CCU, SICU, CVSICU, Precepting & Teaching.
I too was bullied as a nurse. I think any new grad who gets 14 patients and has to share an aide with 2 nurses that have 11 patients each (my aide had 16 patients & their other aide had 10) is bullied. Both of the other nurses had a seasoned nurse with them that had been in orientation longer than I had, so they split those 11 patients. I was told I had 14 because 8 were going home and the charge promised to do their discharge paperwork for me. We only had 2 med carts & glucometers, so I was stuck running around to find those too. I only had 10 diabetic patients....

Well, the charge nurse didnt help & everyone else was "too busy" (gossiping with doctors about their weekend together)! I also got calls for 8 admits before 5 pm. The aide quit that night (brand new, 3rd day there) & I called the house supervisor. 3 nurses came in to help me & the nurses I was working with got mad no one was helping them! I got a quick lesson in standing my ground for what was right by my patients that night. By the 3 nurses who came to help me AND by the other night nurses who came in later.

That same charge nurse relieved me one morning & berated me because I didn't give her report, my LPN did. I had repeatedlyrics coded the same patient on the med-surg floor because we had no unit beds and we're waiting on transport for 2 hours to another hospital. My scrubs were drenched in sweat & the room was a disaster. I told her if she had been in my situation, her room would have been trashed too. She even tried to give the transport team report; the flight nurse said, "I'll take my report from someone who LOOKS like they've been with this patient since before our call!"

I left her the mess too! Manager came down hall as I was going out of the room & said to me it was past time to clock out. That place required a nurse to pick up trash from rooms....and the management was stickler about overtime. I never had any more trouble from her....

I am sorry you are unhappy at work, but none of that constitutes bullying. Or eating young.

You may have gotten more patients because the other nurses had sicker patients. Or because the charge was trying to challenge you a bit to up your game. A charge nurse "berating" you may be you being overly sensitive, may have been her having a bad day, may have been any one of a number of things, but I don't see real bullying there. It's been said before, but I'll risk repeating it:

People who cry "bully" over failure to get along with their colleagues devalue the experience of people who have experienced REAL bullying.

Sometimes I wonder if certain people live in an alternate reality of their own making.

Bullying is abuse. I have been bullied. Physically and emotionally. None of the people citing examples of how they were bullied on this thread have been correct in their examples.

When you are systematically told you are stupid, worthless, and that the only reason you are employed is because it is too much trouble to fire you, then you are being bullied.

When you are excluded from every conversation, excluded from meetings, and your coworkers only speak to you to order you around or berate you, then you are being bullied.

When you work your butt off to get your company an award and your boss says you didn't do anything special and your male coworker, who made one phone call, deserves all the credit, then you are being bullied.

None of these examples happened to me in the nursing field. All of them were perpetuated by men.

So, I have a serious issue with the original article. It's BS. Just more propaganda, trying to get women to backstab each other so the author can make more money.

Some of you can perpetuate the "woe is me" myth all you want to, but those of us with true life experience know you for the pot-stirring, whiny instigators you are.

I don't understand why nurses who complain continually about ratios and shortages want to be nasty butt heads to anyone much less a new grad! They were once new first off and that person is one less shift that needs covered. I make it a point to be nice and helpful to new people so they will stay! I am sry for all you have been dealing with it is uncalled for as well crazy, I hope u find justice and peace for a long rewarding career.

Specializes in Psych.
Like I said previously, I stand up for new nurses 100 percent and always will no matter how old I get. And also like I said previously, treat others how you would want to be treated. It CAN BE a cruel world in the nursing profession. If anyone has been targeted or has been one of those new nurses who were bullied, then you would understand. You have no idea what people have been through. Again, BULLYING is not something to take lightly... no matter what circumstance.

Let me me just say that if you or anyone you may know has truly been bullied, then I am sorry that happened. But people really need to learn to stand up for themselves, besides learning what constitutes as actual bullying. Bullying, to me, is a constant, day in and day out barrage of personal insults, tripping, physically bumping someone, laughing every time you walk by.

And if that IS the case, you have to take the POWER away from whoever is doing that to you or anyone else. Unfortunately, some people don't know how to rise above being a victim. I understand there may be people who are not the nicest, most welcoming, but that happens in any profession. The best thing to do in these situations is use them to your advantage. Don't let anyone mistreat or abuse you. I have not read any genuine instance of bullying yet, so please enlighten me if I am wrong.

I have been in many situations where I felt uncomfortable, laughed at, or just didn't like the way someone treated me. Either I got to know them, and they backed off and were actually pretty great people OR I didn't let them push me around, I held my ground without demeaning them in return. And THEN they backed off. Either way, it's just one of those things that you learn, hopefully, as you age and have more experiences with people in all walks of life who are different than you. It will all be ok. Just remember what really matters in your life, and the people who love you. It kind of puts things in perspective after emotions have calmed down. I just don't want everything under the sun to be classified as bullying, when most things described are "working with people who suck." This is not to say I know your situation, but just for other things I have seen on here. And yes, I agree, treat others how you would want to be treated. Unfortunately, we can't control other people, just how we react to them.

I see a trend that concerns me greatly over the past 10 years: Students are coming out onto the clinical floors and need waaaaaaay more direction than they used to. The students used to be assigned to the PATIENT, and seek out direction from the Clinical Instructor for guidance.

NOW, the Student Nurse appears to be assigned to the Patient AND the RN, with the Clinical Instructor off somewhere else.

I am a clinical instructor and I understand your concern. It appears to me that students are coming into nursing programs less prepared than they used to. That isn't the fault of the nursing programs but rather our elementary and high school systems. Our kids aren't learning what they should be learning. On the college level I expect that students understand at least the basics of grammar and know how to spell common words. What I find is that they often can't spell even common words and have no understanding of punctuation.

As far as your observations of clinical instructors, I can't speak to all of them, but that's not how I operate. It is important that I be as involved in the student's clinical experience as possible. Some limitations are actually imposed by the facility. For example, in one facility neither the students or the instructor are allowed to provide hygiene care. This must be done by the facility's CNA's. How can students learn if they aren't allowed to lay their hands on the patients?

Specializes in Psych.
Well now, lets clear this right up, shall we? Please open North Dakota Century Code and open 43-12.1. Read through it all please.

As far as I being duty bound to love/cherish/coddle/educate/pet the new nurses? Please find me the statement that makes me required to do so as laid out by my NPA. Go on, I'll wait. Actually, no I won't, because you won't find one. I AM NOT REQUIRED BY MY LICENSE to mentor new nurses.

On to the idea that the most cruel and severe bullying of disrespect and gossip - really, this is the most severe? Gossip? How about keying cars, physical and verbal abuse, racial hate, threats of harm? That's severe bullying. And That would be in my practice act - because they are legally wrong. Gossip, for the most part, is not legally wrong. There is no moral turpitude clause in my NPA. My BON is more concerned about addressing and disciplining the drug diverters, nurses who neglect patients, those with untreated medical and psychological conditions that put their patients at risk. They don't give a single solitary fart in the wind that little Susie got her feelings hurt because mean old Janey wouldn't smile and greet her with a cheery Good morning every shift, and instead kept telling sweet poor Susie that if she didn't start getting her ducks in the proverbial row, her non-proverbial patients were going to be up a Effluent Channel without any means of propulsion shortly.

So, in short, you are incorrect on each point, at least in ND. Now, does my employer have policies regarding mentorship? Yes, and they do not require you to mentor new hires, it is entirely voluntary. As far as "bullying"? Well, I've seen some real bullying that was addressed appropriately, and I've seen some gluteal-injured new nurses have their complaints handed back to them with "Put your big-girl panties on and start solving your own problems, because you lie in the bed you've made."

I have never been to ND and I have no concern as to what your hillbilly state's Nurse Practice Act contains. I would be shocked if your Nurse Practice Act did not contain any mention of professional behaviour and how one should not publically denigrate the Nursing Profession.

I give no professional respect to anyone that uses the word "fart" in an argument and has no idea of what libel means.

Specializes in Hospice.
I have never been to ND and I have no concern as to what your hillbilly state's Nurse Practice Act contains. I would be shocked if your Nurse Practice Act did not contain any mention of professional behaviour and how one should not publically denigrate the Nursing Profession.

I give no professional respect to anyone that uses the word "fart" in an argument and has no idea of what libel means.

Interesting ... I've frequently thought that those who whine the loudest about bullying are the bullies, themselves.

QED.

Specializes in Family Practice, Mental Health.
I have never been to ND and I have no concern as to what your hillbilly state's Nurse Practice Act contains. I would be shocked if your Nurse Practice Act did not contain any mention of professional behaviour and how one should not publically denigrate the Nursing Profession.

I give no professional respect to anyone that uses the word "fart" in an argument and has no idea of what libel means.

Do you realize that you have just claimed that an entire States professional nursing workforce is "Hillbilly" *, and within the same sentence, report that you have never been there?

I don't think there are many here who would care what your professional opinion is, after that declaration.

* (Hillbilly is a term [often derogatory] for people who dwell in rural, mountainous areas in the United States, primarily in Appalachia and the Ozarks. Due to its strongly stereotypical connotations, the term can be offensive to those Americans of Appalachian or Ozark heritage).

I have never been to ND and I have no concern as to what your hillbilly state's Nurse Practice Act contains. I would be shocked if your Nurse Practice Act did not contain any mention of professional behaviour and how one should not publically denigrate the Nursing Profession.

I give no professional respect to anyone that uses the word "fart" in an argument and has no idea of what libel means.

"No one can make you feel inferior without your consent." - Elenor Roosevelt

Go ahead and call my state population a bunch of hillbillies. I don't put much stock in the opinions of those who whine about being picked on while maligning an entire state's population without meeting any of them.

Believe me I'm just absolutely heartbroken that someone on the Internet thinks I'm a hillbilly. My state is known for its accent, its hard working people, and its emphasis on being polite and kind to others (North Dakota Nice is an actual phrase).

I, however, was contaminated by spending years in Milwaukee. So, for all of those in my state who are too kind to say it:

Sit and spin

and

There's no shame in being both humble and hard working.

Specializes in CCU, SICU, CVSICU, Precepting & Teaching.
I have never been to ND and I have no concern as to what your hillbilly state's Nurse Practice Act contains. I would be shocked if your Nurse Practice Act did not contain any mention of professional behaviour and how one should not publically denigrate the Nursing Profession.

I give no professional respect to anyone that uses the word "fart" in an argument and has no idea of what libel means.

Wish we had a "Hate" button. Or a "How could anyone like this nasty post?" button.

Specializes in CCU, SICU, CVSICU, Precepting & Teaching.
Interesting ... I've frequently thought that those who whine the loudest about bullying are the bullies, themselves.

QED.

I have noticed that myself. And beware the newbie who is convinced that everyone she meets will be a bully -- she'll become the bully herself, and sometimes astonishingly quickly.

I have never been to ND and I have no concern as to what your hillbilly state's Nurse Practice Act contains. I would be shocked if your Nurse Practice Act did not contain any mention of professional behaviour and how one should not publically denigrate the Nursing Profession.

I give no professional respect to anyone that uses the word "fart" in an argument and has no idea of what libel means.

I'm insulted by your comment. I'm FROM a "hillbilly" state. I was born in the fabulous state known as "West BY GOD Virginia" & I'm proud to say that I've lived in Kentucky and now the wonderful state of Tennessee.

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