Instant Gratification

Instant gratification is the act of wanting something and the expectation is that you are rewarded immediately. In nursing, there are often multiple generations working in the same unit. Seasoned nurses can find wanting instant gratification a character defect. Newer nurses are foreign to the concept of waiting. To build a successful team, there needs to be a way to marry the two. Nurses Announcements Archive Article

Indulge me for a moment. Back in the day, nothing was instant but coffee. There was a waiting game for almost every aspect of life. It set people up to have a number of anticipatory feelings. Anticipation is a unusual concept today. Instant answers, instant results, instant communication all lead to question--as a multi-generational team, can nurses really merge the older and younger generations to make things run smoothly?

There are a number of seasoned nurses who decide not to retire. They are in a place where they want to work, they need to work, they enjoy the work.

Seasoned nurses have experiences of having to wait for the means to the end. Therefore, their nursing practice reflects careful and mindful nursing choices. They have to critcally think the whole picture. Their nursing judgement is looking at the pieces to make the whole.

What are we going to do now to make this a positive outcome for the future?

Mid career nurses (meaning the generation "X" among us) are in the middle of their nursing practice as well. Some still have kids at home, have to work, have a desire to work for what they want/have to look to the future, however, are mindful of the present.

This group may have some thoughts of instant gratification at times in their nursing practice, however, anticipate the worst and practice for the best based on their interventions. Generation "X" nurses are more acutely aware of delayed gratification.

Most of their parents used a reward system for most of their childhoods. They were very used to the term "that's not fair". These nurses have a diversity in their work style. They have had to always adapt, so it comes naturally for most nurses in this age group. Failing means to re-group and re-visit and try again.

Newer nurses have always had instant gratification. The thought of waiting is not in their mindset, therefore, the level of frustration goes up when their nursing practice doesn't reflect this concept. Well meaning parents had a great deal of flexibility, some on a friendship based parenting style, which can reflect to others as not being respectful. This is rarely the intent, however, can often be a professional faux pas that more seasoned and mid career nurses will take pause to. Failing is not in the thought process at all. So what is helpful in this generation is multiple appropriate interventions to get a positive result.

Diversity in the workplace can mean many things, and can be related to a multi-generational work ethic. We can learn a great deal from each other and our styles of nursing. If we take the personalization out of the equation, and look to what each generation brings to the nursing practice as a whole can we build a better team. Often, if we look at what everyone brings to the table, reflect on how to deal with the different generations accordingly can we brainstorm ways to increase patient satisfaction, and a good end result for the patients.

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Specializes in Pediatrics, Emergency, Trauma.

Oh, ain't it the truth. I think I'll go find it and give it a bump. These young'uns don't know what they're missing. :)

Oh, I am so bummed. That thread was closed. Oh, well...it's still there :)

https://allnurses.com/nurse-colleague-patient/the-mockery-nursing-674000.html

This was the first post I read when I returned to the hiatus of AN, lol...it was very welcoming... ;)

This bump needs a bump, or two, or 103....getting close these days... :nailbiting:

Specializes in FMF CORPSMAN USN, TRUAMA, CCRN.

I am an old geezer, if we are on Generations X and Y, I must be from Generation V. I have retired from nursing for medical reasons several years ago, but still remember the years when we mixed IV’s by hand, long before there were dose packs of medications and we had to visually synchronize the Dr’s orders with the medication sheets and then actually pour our meds in the “Med Room” into little soufflé cups. If we needed to order labs, we had specialized slips for particular test that we had to fill out by hand or if your unit was fortunate enough to have a decent Unit Clerk, you could ask them to do it. You had to do the same thing for any supplies you might need from “Central Supply.” Thank God for computers now days. Speaking of computers, we also had horrendous wait times for the results of lab test as you can imagine. Oh, and did I mention having to mix up narcotics in a spoon, just like a junkie, before you could give them to your patient. There is something to be said for instant gratification.

Specializes in FMF CORPSMAN USN, TRUAMA, CCRN.
All I'm saying is that I had to wait 4 months for my board results and we didn't have to talk on the phone 24/7. We left messages and WAITED for a return call. I make my kids WAIT for things to they can learn patience.

Esme, Thank you very much. These days, people get anxious if they haven't heard back from Boards within, what 3 days? I don't even know. I had to wait like you did. The phone calls, I can still remember party lines, but we can forget those, since we are talking about messages. Remember busy signals? Or the days when there were no answering machines on home phones, and all you got was a ringing phone, and you had to call them back? Oh my, heaven forbid. I guess I'm still dating myself with alluding to such a decrepit device as an answering machines since most now use voice mail; supplied by the phone company or have stopped using land lines all together, and simply use their cellphones.

Specializes in CCM, PHN.

All of this is a reminder that progress is PROGRESS no matter what generation or decade or era it is.

Cave people who beat their clothes on a rock probably thought the same about younger cave people who used wash boards; wash board users who wrung out their clothes thought the same of the newbies who used a roller wringer; the roller wringers thought anyone who used a new fangled electric clothes dryer was just an impatient youngin who couldn't wait for anything. One day the Gen Y kids will be harping, "back in my day we drove CARS on ROADS to get places, not this fancy teleportation crap and individual jetpacks. Kids these days can't sit in a car for 20 minutes, rant mutter swear cuss moan."

Evolution and de-evolution are ebb and flow. The problem lies in resistance to it.

Major stereotyping..... I am older and still struggling with impatience like the 20 year olds you describe. I believe we are in a new era with technology, all generations are insisting on "right now" results in regards to technology. And yes I so understand the slow initiation into this field of nursing. As a nurse with 30 years experience YOU may have forgot the pain and slowness of "being new."