Bullying in the Workplace

You have heard it said that "Nurses eat their young", and you may actually have been on the receiving end of that. How can you respond if you are bullied at work? How do you know if you are bullied? How do you know if you ARE the bully? Nurses Announcements Archive Article

October is National Bullying Awareness Month. Bullying can occur in places other than on the schoolyard or in the school hallways. Bullying in the workplace is a very real occurrence that happens on a daily basis. Nurses can be victims of a bully in several ways: horizontal (from upper level management - charge nurse, supervisor, manager, etc), vertical (nurse to nurse), or even from patients. This article will focus on bullying from coworkers.

I was caring for my 16 month old patient who had a drain from her skull as a result of neurosurgery the day before. The surgeon had come in to remove her drain and she was having a scant amount of drainage from her site. The father wanted to hold his daughter, so I gently placed some gauze on her site and taped the gauze into place. At this point, the charge nurse walked in and became verbally aggressive in saying that the surgeon would not want gauze placed on the site, and then began to criticize other aspects of my care for this patient - including the temperature! I was taking a temp with the manual temp instead of the monitors - I had my reasons! The father immediately lost all trust in me caring for his daughter. I had not done anything wrong in my care for this patient, and I had already talked with the surgeon outside of the room and he said I could put gauze on her if she was draining some.

This is an example of nurse bullying. The Department of Labor (DOL) identifies bullying as a behavior that creates defenselessness or demoralizes the victim's right to dignity in the workplace (2006). Furthermore, bullying involves verbal abuse, humiliating or intimidating behaviors, threats, or behavior that interferes with the job performance (Center for American Nurses, 2007). Murray (2009) cites ten tell-tale signs of workplace bullying. Included in these 10 signs are: the inability to please a supervisor, undermining of an employee who is trying to do their job, accusations of incompetence of a previously proved area of excellence, yelling or screaming at others in order to make them look bad, degradation of the employee in front of others, and inability to get help despite requests by the victim for interventions, thus leaving the nurse to be filled with dread and stress.

The effects of bullying in the workplace should not be taken lightly. Bullying has become an increasing factor of job dissatisfaction, work related injuries, absences from work, decreased productivity, AND has been found to cost employers over $4 BILLION dollars yearly (Murray, 2008)! Workers who have witnessed the effects of bullying - or have been a victim their self - can attest to the frustration and even anger that can arise after falling prey to the bully or the "minions" who are in cahoots with the bully.

What to do? I can tell you what I did, and the bullying stopped (for the most part) for me. I say "for the most part" because after this charge nurse was given the choice of being fired or transferring out of our unit, she verbally attacked me when I transferred a patient to her care from the ICU. After the initial degrading in front of my patient's father, I told the nurse, "I want to speak with you in the hallway" in a cordial, calm voice. When we were alone, I addressed the problem head on - again, in a calm and professional manner. I told her, in no uncertain terms, that she would never address me again like that in front of a patient, and if she had anything at all to say about how I provided care that was harmful to the patient, then we could discuss it away from the patient. Surprisingly, this nurse apologized to me.

A few weeks later, the nurse was dismissed from the PICU because of her unethical actions, and given the option to quit or to be reassigned. She chose reassignment. I thought our problem was over and behind us, until I transferred a patient from PICU to her floor, and to her care. After showing the RN the patient (here are her IV's, here is her incision, etc) she accepted the patient in good condition. However, while the patient was in her care, the IV became occluded, her surgical site began bleeding, and she told the surgeon I took the patient to her "gushing blood" and had occluded IV's. Thankfully, I had a witness who was in the room when we went did the patient SBAR handoff and assessment, and she attested to the false accusation.

I love an article written by Malcolm Lewis (2006). This article consists of a table that explains features of bullying activity. Lewis cites bullying activity is planned and deliberate in order to discredit a coworker; undermining, verbally abusive, physically abusive (although this is rare), sarcastic, continuously criticizes, demeaning, fabricates complaints, sets one up to fail, and they are usually aware of the damage they are causing. Interestingly, the time frame for bullying can last from months to years ('serial bullying').

The victim should follow the chain of command when reporting bullying incidents in a timely manner. In the case of vertical bullying (nurse to nurse) the manager should be informed. If the manager is the one who is the bully, documented incidents should be reported to the next level up. It is vitally important for the victim to have written documentation and dates of each incident, as well as the steps taken to report the bully. Additionally, the victim must always act like a professional, so that repercussions will not befall the victim for actions that are unbecoming. The Joint Commission (TJC) cites the bullying behavior must be addressed in the workplace (2008). This can include a "zero tolerance" policy for "intimidating and/or disruptive behaviors" (2008).

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Specializes in LTC, Medical, Rehab, Psych.

I hate to say this but this article has just reminded me on a day off why I dislike nursing so much. YES, I REALLY DO DISLIKE MY WORK. There are many, many great moments and I'll give it that, but there are SOOOO many moments in which I or my co-workers are put down, abused (literally hit/kicked/yelled at), interrupted by staff, supervisors, patients and families. I/we are singled out when a mistake is made (the mistake may have even been made by another) and RARELY thanked when things go well. We are assigned to FAR TOO MANY patients than we can often safely care for, our CNAs are assigned to too many patients to help us adequately, we sometimes lack resources, we always lack time, we're expected to be grateful for our jobs since they are a "calling" instead of a way to put food on the table (this is where I believe other nurses need to stop propagating the Florence Nightingale myth since it is HIGHLY damaging). In nursing school, they tell you that people rate nurses and firemen as two of the most respected and well-liked professions. I sure don't know anything about being a fireman, but as a nurse (my second career), I see respect only from folks outside of healthcare looking in (currently non-patients and families). Example: "Oh, you're a nurse. I highly respect that; that's a really hard job. I could never do what you guys do." And I, because I think it important to SPEAK, tell them (if they're in a place to listen) all about how it really is.......

Specializes in ED, Critical Care.

Trust me I'm a firefighter/paramedic as my regular job. On the medic side, it is not much better.

I think thats part of the reason I've only worked part time occasionally and really have zero desire to be a nurse when I retire.

I pretty much hate most people. :sniff: Hate to say that, but after dealing all the B.S. on the EMS where I have a little more "freedom" do deal with things. Then to go and have to deal with it in a more structured and butt kissing situation.

I don't want to or have to deal with it.

Specializes in pediatrics, occupational health.
Trust me I'm a firefighter/paramedic as my regular job. On the medic side, it is not much better.

I think thats part of the reason I've only worked part time occasionally and really have zero desire to be a nurse when I retire.

I pretty much hate most people. :sniff: Hate to say that, but after dealing all the B.S. on the EMS where I have a little more "freedom" do deal with things. Then to go and have to deal with it in a more structured and butt kissing situation.

I don't want to or have to deal with it.

haha! I totally get that! My husband hates everyone too, but he has a big heart. I am sure you do too - all the firefighters/medics I know do have big hearts, but don't want anyone to know it... ;)

How did you come to be on this site?

Specializes in ED, Critical Care.

I'm an RN as well.

I'm going to print this article, highlight certain parts, and put it on the bulletin board in the breakroom. I'd like to put my "bully's" name on it, along with the names of her entourage of little "minions" but I'll refrain from doing so because I don't want to stoop to their level. A wise man once told me "the problem with getting down in the dirt with pigs is you might get dirty." The long and short of it is I'm a new nurse. Upon graduating, I worked 1 year at a LTC facility to gain some confidence and hone my skills before applying for a hospital based position. I've been working at a rehabilitation hospital for 4 months. The bullying from one particular nurse began during my 2nd month there. I know I should have "nipped it in the bud" the first time that it occurred but quite frankly I was too shocked and scared to say anything to her. Afterwhich, she and her clique of minions started belittling me, talking about me behind my back and going out of their way to intentionally be unkind to me. Since we have self scheduling, I just scheduled myself for opposite shifts so I wouldn't come into contact with them. Unfortunately, I had the misfortune of being assigned to work with her one night again last week, during which time, she took it upon herself to butt into my business and degrade me in front of all of the other nurses/tech's on my shift. I'm at a loss as to why I've been singled out for her wrath. I get along fine with everyone else, go out of my way to be helpful to others, answer call lights, help the techs, etc. My patient's like me and I like them. I haven't had any negative feedback whatsoever from my supervisors or my manager about my compentence or the quality of my work and I'm well beyond the 90 day probation period. Yes, I'm new. Yes, my time management, prioritization, and delegation skills are still evolving. Yes, I ask questions. Yes, I ask for help when I don't know how to do something. However, I write it down in my notebook, never ask the same question twice and once you've show me how to do something I remember it and don't ask you again. Unlike you-my bully and your little entourage of minions-I don't pretend to know everything there is to know about nursing. I learn something new everyday, as it should be, and as you likewise did when you were a new nurse. So, get off your high horse and get over yourselves.

Specializes in Rehabilitation,Critical Care.

I think I'm in the same situation as you. Same position, working in a rehab hospital too.

Specializes in ICU,ER,med-Surg,Geri,Correctional.

Wow! I can't tell you how to deal with these type of behaviors. I just know that this will not be the last of these type folks. Do not let this bunch of devious workers. Have you doubting you desire to become a nurse, or questioning your current and potential abilities and skills. You made it through school and your boards therefore you are a nurse. Why some nurse seem to be intimidated by young blood I have no idea?. I can say that as a nurse I always enjoyed working with and sharing with the new nurses. Yes I learned a lot from them, they had a better grasp on the future direction of nursing than I did in many ways. But I have also seen folks who loved nursing and although they did lack experience they had a lot of heart and desire. They got shot down and bullied by this odd breed of nurses. Hang in there keep that fire and desire that got you into nursing close by. I use to always tell my new nurse friends then when dealing with some of these nurses, with their smirks, and frowns, that the smiles of your patients and families is the reward!

It amazes me every time I see this type of bullying in the workplace.

I think to myself, "How can people act like this?!".

It is totally unnecessary and should never be done!

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Specializes in Mental Health, Gerontology, Palliative.

I've been going through this recently...... The bully is a manager which always makes it fun.

One of our first union meetings she asked me about what we had discussed in the meeting. I was just a comment 'same old same old'. Want till I was talking to our rep she said the manager had no business in asking.

The bully will say stuff, and then about 2 weeks down the track she then says the complete oppisate. For example she approved my leave (stupid me didnt get it in writing) and then two weeks later canceled it saying that I'd already had my share of annual leave ( I had been off sick for a week with raging cellultitis that needed daily IVABs, I'd used annual leave as I had no sick leave entitlement).

She had also told us when we had more of the RNs trained up we would only need to be working one weekend in 4-5 weeks. Then about 2 weeks later when she'd gotten rid of a whole bunch of experienced bureau nurses she told us we would need to be working every third weekend.

Specifically she sat me down for our one to one catch up. Told me that she'd had complaints from all three DN allocators that I was being a prima donna and standing over them demanding smaller lists.. I knew damm well they had said no such thing because I dont do it. The ironic thing was that the first DN allocations person hadnt been doing the DN list since back in April (this was in late september)

She also told me that I couldnt just ring her up expecting her to reallocate my patients like it was an ongoing thing. I'd contacted her once, because I walked into a clients home which was listed as a non complex wound when in reality it was a non complex wound, plus a change of renasys (think VAC) which meant I'd be an 90 minutes as opposed to the 30 minutes allocated.

The last straw that broke the camels back was when I came back from stress leave ( i suspect she had thought I wouldnt come back) picked up my car to find out my entire kit had been put back into stock) within 2 hours of being back on the monday I had a letter and an invitation from her inviting me to a disciplinary meeting and I was being accused of serious misconduct for an incident that had happened four weeks previous. The serious misconduct was related to the week I had off work due to the cellulitis, on the sunday prior to returning to work had attended a lunch for my friends boys who were admitted into holy communion. I'd chosen to go because I knew it would be a tough day (her husband had died in April) and wanted to support my friend.

Bear in mind its standard practice to put people off on leave while this is being investigated. I continued to have a full district nursing list and worked the charge role over the holiday weekend.

The good news is that I have a new job and have only five days left with this horrible cow.

I always wonder what drives a bully? I mean how the heck do they think that their behavior is acceptable

Specializes in ICU,ER,med-Surg,Geri,Correctional.

They are usually very good a sucking up to management. Then they just about become untouchable. They get to position of power by putting their noses in sticky places. Because they do get to the top of the hill by their own work and merit. They are always insecure and easily intimidated. when you must climb that hill you fall a few times, but it makes you stronger. So when you do get on the top. You can hang on. These (BMs) Bully Managers never climb the hill it seems someone just sets them on the top. However if you wait until its time for the Joint Commission to re-accredit the hospital. They usually become the most docile friendly folks you ever find. This is when their real insecurity will manifest then they need you and treat you like a human!.... Sad but no joke!. Glad you have a job elsewhere, but don't take the negative baggage with you. Let the garbage stay their on your exit. Celebrate its a new day and new job!!!!

Specializes in ED, Cardiac-step down, tele, med surg.

So you think a better approach might being going to the compliance officer to investigate these types of behaviors? There are some of these behaviors, particularly by physicians against nurses that I think are detrimental to patient care and safety that I think should be reported, but am hesitant to go to management because I am so new, but it is problematic. Making interactions with physicians so unpleasant to avoid contact at all cost can be dangerous for the patient if they have nurses unwilling to speak up. Myself not being one of those but have come across a few nurses that have let things slide probably to avoid interacting with certain MDs is a possible safety issue. I'm afraid to speak up being this new. I don't want to rock the boat too much because I need to work, yet what I have observed and experienced is wrong.

This is an example of nurse bullying. The Department of Labor (DOL) identifies bullying as a behavior that creates defenselessness or demoralizes the victim's right to dignity in the workplace (2006). Furthermore, bullying involves verbal abuse, humiliating or intimidating behaviors, threats, or behavior that interferes with the job performance (Center for American Nurses, 2007). Murray (2009) cites ten tell-tale signs of workplace bullying. Included in these 10 signs are: the inability to please a supervisor, undermining of an employee who is trying to do their job, accusations of incompetence of a previously proved area of excellence, yelling or screaming at others in order to make them look bad, degradation of the employee in front of others, and inability to get help despite requests by the victim for interventions, thus leaving the nurse to be filled with dread and stress.

I work at a community clinic that attends walking patients during the weekend. I do not like to be in charge, the assistants and LPNs that work in the same shift with me have this tendency of trying to make me look bad. If I take too long dealing with a phone call, they criticize me. If I am documenting the call, I am criticized because I can not take a third call. If the phone rings and I can not get the call because I am with a patient, I am criticized as well. They do not yell at me, but they could talk to each other loud enough for me hear them insinuating that I do not do my job. Weekends at my work place are very busy and hectic, I am considering to drop them because I do not want to work with those people. However, isn't it what the want????