So I'm new at my job so I'm pretty timid cause I'm not used working with a bunch of people (used to work 1:30 in a SNF by myself on the floor)... I have conversations with people and I'm extremely helpful when someone needs it but like instead of sitting at the nurses station I sit in the hallway to finish my charting so I can focus( it's new to me and there's a lot of charting so I don't have time to chat like the rest of them do) plus if I have a needy patient I sit near their room so it's easier.
Today, I was sitting in the hallway doing these education classes I have to take as part of my orientation ... Some were due today so I was doing them ... Bunch of quizzes and you have to pass them all so I wanted to focus.
One of the nurses comes up to me and says "word of advice don't isolate yourself... Engage."
And I said "why did someone say something about my being in the hallway charting?" and she goes "no... These people are different not like other nurses at other hospitals ..". And she left it at that.
It really urked me cause I was just minding my business and charting not thinking it would be anyone's concern that I was doing my job. Being new to the unit and a hospital was stressful enough that I am trying to be perfect at my job because I love it! I help everyone ... Talk to other people when appropriate (everyone has worked there 2+ years and are really close) so I'm trying to fit in but not be overbearing. Now I have to worry about people thinking I'm isolating myself. It's exhausting.
i took her "advice" as rude because I didn't ask for it. How would you respond to it? Thoughts?