she has a crush on me - page 2

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so i just started university doing a bsn and i'm now in my second semester, its going quite good so far i got 5 "-a's" and 1 "b" on my finals of the first semester, i' was pretty proud to get an -a in biochemistry since i was... Read More


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    Quote from ackeem
    so i just started university doing a bsn and i'm now in my second semester, its going quite good so far i got 5 "-a's" and 1 "b" on my finals of the first semester, i' was pretty proud to get an -a in biochemistry since i was struggling a bit. but to the real issue, there's this one girl in my class that has been staring me down from day one, anyway i didn't think much of it. normally i see her everyday so most times i greet her and we exchange a few words, then i would go my way. so recently (last week) our psychology lecturer placed us in groups for a group presentation, now it just so happen that me and that one girl ended up in the same group.

    so anyway i called a group meeting this past monday to prepare for our presentation, its like six of us, me the only guy and five other girls (i'm the only guy in the whole class of 33 people), so naturally i decided i would be the main representative of the group. anyway in the midst of the meeting i was basically brain storming some ideas when this girl came out of nowhere and said " hey ackeem do you have a girl friend?" so was like shocked not particularly at the nature of the question but how randomly the question was ask.

    so i was like speechless for 3 second not responding to her until one of the other group members said to continue what i was saying, anyway i did and yes it was a very awkward moment. about 20 mins later i ended the meeting and gave them topics they should research on to discus wednesday. so anyway wednesday arrived, after we had finish discussing the presentation that one girl (her name is latoya btw), came over to me and said that i still haven't answered her question so i was like what are you talking about?, what question? anyway i knew exactly what she was talking about but i didn't want to her to think that i was considering it much (you know, trying to play cool).

    so anyway she ask me again and i replied saying "yes i am single me and my gf recently broke up" the moment i said that her face literally lit up, then she told me she also was single, anyway i immediately changed to subject, and shorty after that we went out separate ways.

    so here's the problem guys, this girl is hot and all, but we're going to be in the same class for 3 and half more years lol so
    i don't really want to start a relationship with this chick because i have a bad feeling that it wouldn't end well, and will only distract me and complicate my school life even more.

    so from a professional point of view guys, what do you think i should do, go ahead and date her or just forget about it and think about my studies.

    and are there any guys here who date classmates and it worked out fine?
    you've gotten solid advice from the guys and ladies that have posted before me, and your logic seems sound. my advice is to just forget about the situation. if she is really adamant about pursuing the relationship you might have to deal with the situation. if so try to spare her feelings as much as possible, the "i don't want to mix business and pleasure" argument usually works, and in your case it applies.
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    I did it. Ended up horribly and now we act like we don't even know each other when we see each other. Would still do it again.
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    Find out if she is down with casual relationships....Np pressure no worries....

    If so, arrange a private A&P study session, STAT
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    [quote=ackeem;6187778]so i just started university doing a bsn and i'm now in my second semester, its going quite good so far i got 5 "-a's" and 1 "b" on my finals of the first semester, i' was pretty proud to get an -a in biochemistry since i was struggling a bit. but to the real issue, there's this one girl in my class that has been staring me down from day one, anyway i didn't think much of it. normally i see her everyday so most times i greet her and we exchange a few words, then i would go my way. so recently (last week) our psychology lecturer placed us in groups for a group presentation, now it just so happen that me and that one girl ended up in the same group.

    so anyway i called a group meeting this past monday to prepare for our presentation, its like six of us, me the only guy and five other girls (i'm the only guy in the whole class of 33 people), so naturally i decided i would be the main representative of the group. anyway in the midst of the meeting i was basically brain storming some ideas when this girl came out of nowhere and said " hey ackeem do you have a girl friend?" so was like shocked not particularly at the nature of the question but how randomly the question was ask.

    so i was like speechless for 3 second not responding to her until one of the other group members said to continue what i was saying, anyway i did and yes it was a very awkward moment. about 20 mins later i ended the meeting and gave them topics they should research on to discus wednesday. so anyway wednesday arrived, after we had finish discussing the presentation that one girl (her name is latoya btw), came over to me and said that i still haven't answered her question so i was like what are you talking about?, what question? anyway i knew exactly what she was talking about but i didn't want to her to think that i was considering it much (you know, trying to play cool).

    so anyway she ask me again and i replied saying "yes i am single me and my gf recently broke up" the moment i said that her face literally lit up, then she told me she also was single, anyway i immediately changed to subject, and shorty after that we went out separate ways.

    so here's the problem guys, this girl is hot and all, but we're going to be in the same class for 3 and half more years lol so
    i don't really want to start a relationship with this chick because i have a bad feeling that it wouldn't end well, and will only distract me and complicate my school life even more.

    so from a professional point of view guys, what do you think i should do, go ahead and date her or just forget about it and think about my studies.

    and are there any guys here who date classmates and it worked out fine?[/quote

    i had one girl for some reason she followed me around until one day she asked me," do you have a girlfriend. i told her no, but i have a cute boyfriend. she never bother me again.
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    Quote from commonsense
    There's a time and place for dirty humor cavmedic16, don't be an idiot.
    Too late!
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    Dude.. don't do it.. I'm a married man and I still get hit on.. Best thing I can suggest is to grow a hobo beard and fly stealth under the radar of the females. I know your thinking, wow, mutual interests, group study session, etc. Keep your eye on the prize. That prize is graduating.

    Wear this as a shirt one day. You're all business.

    Wild Irish LPN likes this.
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    Quote from CaptKris
    Dude.. don't do it.. I'm a married man and I still get hit on.. Best thing I can suggest is to grow a hobo beard and fly stealth under the radar of the females. I know your thinking, wow, mutual interests, group study session, etc. Keep your eye on the prize. That prize is graduating.

    Wear this as a shirt one day. You're all business.

    you aware brah?
    Merlyn likes this.


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