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Jun 16, 2006 03:29 PM

Residents who don't get along


I care for two residents in particular who are in beds B and C in a three-bed room (the lady in bed A is very quiet and doesn't take any mind of B and C). Resident C has back pain, contractures in her arms and legs, and a decub on her rear, and will groan or ask out loud for help. Resident B, who is ambulatory with walker and very alert, will talk back to her... along the lines of:
"OoOOOh, it hurts!! When are my pain pills coming?"
"If it were ME, I'd be up getting those pain pills my own darn self. Shut up!"

Resident C asked me yesterday to tell Resident B that she only makes noise if she's in pain, and to please not yell back at her. I politely conveyed this message; Res B would have none of it. Aside from keeping Res C supplied with water to drink, positioned comfortably, and checking in on her every so often, I'm not sure what I could do to ameliorate the situation.


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No. 1
Old Jun 16, 2006, 04:15 PM

Default Re: Residents who don't get along
Is there any way to move any of these residents into different rooms?
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No. 2
from LPN1974
Old Jun 16, 2006, 04:24 PM

Default Re: Residents who don't get along
To me, that's abuse.
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No. 3
Old Jun 16, 2006, 04:49 PM

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Originally Posted by LPN1974
To me, that's abuse.
What action are you suggesting is abuse? Moving a patient to a different room, or forcing one to have to suffer being harrased by another patient?
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No. 4
Old Jun 16, 2006, 05:38 PM

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Originally Posted by SaraO'Hara
I care for two residents in particular who are in beds B and C in a three-bed room (the lady in bed A is very quiet and doesn't take any mind of B and C). Resident C has back pain, contractures in her arms and legs, and a decub on her rear, and will groan or ask out loud for help. Resident B, who is ambulatory with walker and very alert, will talk back to her... along the lines of:
"OoOOOh, it hurts!! When are my pain pills coming?"
"If it were ME, I'd be up getting those pain pills my own darn self. Shut up!"

Resident C asked me yesterday to tell Resident B that she only makes noise if she's in pain, and to please not yell back at her. I politely conveyed this message; Res B would have none of it. Aside from keeping Res C supplied with water to drink, positioned comfortably, and checking in on her every so often, I'm not sure what I could do to ameliorate the situation.
Residents that act this way towards one another are a bit nerve racking but then again they all have their own personal opinions and personalities and some really need a room change...or therapy.
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No. 5
from skipaway
Old Jun 16, 2006, 05:48 PM

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Originally Posted by Retired R.N.
What action are you suggesting is abuse? Moving a patient to a different room, or forcing one to have to suffer being harrased by another patient?
I think the reply is to the situation that Resident B is placing on Resident C, not your solutions.
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No. 6
from nursesarah
Old Jun 16, 2006, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Jupiter Crash
Residents that act this way towards one another are a bit nerve racking but then again they all have their own personal opinions and personalities and some really need a room change...or therapy.
the unfortunate thing is that some people are just like this. and changing rooms is not going to do anything. because i can guarantee that if its a part of this resident's personality, they will find something wrong with another roomate.
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No. 7
Old Jun 16, 2006, 06:00 PM

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Originally Posted by nursesarah
the unfortunate thing is that some people are just like this. and changing rooms is not going to do anything. because i can guarantee that if its a part of this resident's personality, they will find something wrong with another roomate.
you speak the truth if it is embedded then usually wont change no matter what. It is kind of sad really...
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No. 8
from LPN1974
Old Jun 16, 2006, 09:53 PM
Updated Jun 16, 2006 at 09:55 PM by LPN1974

Default Re: Residents who don't get along
Originally Posted by Retired R.N.
What action are you suggesting is abuse? Moving a patient to a different room, or forcing one to have to suffer being harrased by another patient?

That someone has to live in a room with someone who yells at them all the time.
Not the changing of rooms. That is done all the time.

My reply that I gave about the abuse was in response to the OP's message of one resident yelling at another one.

I certainly wouldn't want my grandmother to have to endure living in a room with someone like that.
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No. 9
from Daytonite
Old Jun 17, 2006, 03:24 AM

Two things. (1) The pain medications of Resident C ought to be reviewed to make sure she is being adequately relieved. And/or (2) The administrator and/or who ever is in charge of the beds need to have a sit down first with Resident B's family and explain what is going on and why there is concern for the safety of Resident C. Resident B needs to be moved to another bed because of her behavior unless she is capable of controlling herself. It needs to be pointed out to the resident and the family that all Residents are entitled to an enjoyment of the space they occupy and that includes being free of harassment by a roommate. How come the DON and administrators haven't intervened in this yet?

Had a similar situation years ago. One of the residents ended up taking her cane to the more helpless one who was calling out and ended up breaking the wrist of the helpless resident. Lawsuit ensued. Chart review indicated that nurses were continually charting the outbursts of the aggressive patient toward her roommate. It pretty much made winning the lawsuit a piece of cake for the injured patient.
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