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- by CinDRnyc May 24, '12hi all,
something has really been eating at me lately and i felt like i needed to voice it and see if anyone feels the same or has an opinion on it. i have been a member of allnurses for awhile now and initially felt that it was a big help in terms of getting pertinent information on nursing and for students as well.
lately, i am starting to feel the complete opposite, i have seen so many posts on reasons why "not" to be a nurse on here than any other place on the net, and it is starting to bother me. i myself just finished all of my pre-reqs this past semester and just submitted applications to 2 bsn programs this week; these feelings make me feel like possibly reconsidering my future careeer as a nurse.
honestly, what are the "positive" reasons for going into nursing or being an rn????
i feel very uninspired when i read posts on allnurses by "current" rn's and all the bs they have to deal with on a daily basis. i know that no job or career will ever be perfect but sometimes the negatives seems so excessive!
i don't know if this makes sense to anyone but it just seems like there are so many more negatives to nursing than there are positives voiced on allnurse and i don't even know if i want to go to nursing school anymore.....either that or i will just go and stop reading threads on this website all together.
anyone feel the same or have anything positive to offer???
Last edit by CinDRnyc on May 24, '12 : Reason: typo
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- May 24, '12 by IndyElmerAlas, I'm in the same boat. I see a lot of negativity in nursing posts (not just on AllNurses) and I often wonder if this is going to be a giant let down. I think I have realistic expectations about the pro's & con's but I wonder if in the current "culture" of the healthcare industry, even my "realistic" expectations are impossible. I do have friends who are nurses who absolutely LOVE their jobs, but they tend to be in outpatient facilities rather than being in hospital settings where I suspect most nurses have to spend some time "paying dues."
For some positivity, I really like Nurse Nacole's blog/vlog. She seems to keep it real while also staying positive.
In addition to looking for more stories like the one that the OP asked for, if anyone has any "positive energy" blogs or other resources, I'd love to hear about them. (Please note, I do actually seek out "positive energy" threads on All Nurses too. If there are any that you have marked as favorites for presenting a balanced take on nursing, I'd love to know about them!)
- May 24, '12 by cally527Quote from cindrnyci completely understand how you are feeling. i am waiting to hear about my application for an adn program starting in the fall. i have been seeing a lot of negative comments on here not only about nursing, but about job prospects and adn programs. it is hard to not start second guessing my choice to go to nursing school. the way i see it, there is a reason why i decided to go to nursing school and that has not changed. i have friends and family members that are nurses and they all seem to love it! just like any other profession, nursing has its pro's and con's. whenever i see negative comments, i remind myself that 1) i have wanted to go into nursing for years and let myself get talked out of it a while back. i have been miserable and disliked working in business (which is what i was encouraged to pursue by certain family members) 2)the job market is not going to be miserable forever. i may have to look for a while after graduation, but i will get a job at some point. 3) only a few hospitals in my area require a bsn. i know that can change, but i also know that i can do an rn-bsn program once i have a little money saved up. 4)i will be much more unhappy if i let others discourage me from what i want to do.i have been a member of allnurses for awhile now and initially felt that it was a big help in terms of getting pertinent information on nursing and for students as well.
lately, i am starting to feel the complete opposite, i have seen so many posts on reasons why "not" to be a nurse on here than any other place on the net, and it is starting to bother me.
i hope that this helps you a bit. try to remember why you want to become an rn whenever you see negative posts.
good luck, i hope you get into the program you want!
- May 24, '12 by arrisubI would like to add...usually when people post on public forums, it is the bad stuff they talk about. Not often does somone write when they have a great day. They write when they have had an awful day and need to vent. This forum and others provide a safe place to say whatever they are feeling and air frustration. Yes, there are lots of negative things said and bad days are had by students and seasoned RN's alike, but there are also some very positive posts (as I am sure you have noticed :P ).
Keep your nose to the wheel and follow your passion!Last edit by arrisub on May 24, '12 : Reason: because good grammar is important!
- May 24, '12 by Ashley, PICU RNI understand your points, and they are certainly valid.
However, please know that what you view as negativity, many of us simply view as honesty. I've seen many, many posts that ask "How hard will it be to get a job after graduation?" or "Are hospitals hiring ADN's?" or, my favorite "I'm going to be a pediatric nurse when I graduate because I never want to work with adults."
While it may not make you feel warm and fuzzy to read that, 'Yes, it probably will be hard to get a job after graduation' and 'No, many hospitals are requiring BSN degrees' and 'Actually, you might not be able to be a pediatric nurse right after graduation,' that is nevertheless the reality of the situation.
I realize that it's hard to read information that makes it seem like your goals will be harder to reach then you would like. But I post on these forums so that I can provide accurate information and advice. I don't think it's right for me to put a positive spin on everything and provide false reassurance just so that the poster can feel happy and inspired.
Believe me, I've also seen many "Nobody told me it would be like this!" posts from new graduates who have found it very hard to secure a job. They went into nursing school with the false idea that there would be a dozen jobs waiting for them after they graduated and were shocked and dismayed to find that that was not the case. I don't want anyone to come back on me on AllNurses and say, "You should have told me it would be hard!"
- May 24, '12 by IndyElmerFor me, the negativity is much more about the job itself, rather than about job prospects post-graduation. It seems like a LOT of nurses are burnt out & bitter. I doubt any of them ever thought they would feel that way when they chose nursing, so I worry that it could happen to me too. Even those who profess to love their jobs (and I do believe them that they love their jobs), even they have plenty of times where they are "dealing" or "coping" with negative aspects of the job in what seems to be much greater frequency than I felt that my colleagues and I had to deal with in my old profession. Often, it seems like the way that they get through it is by having a very resilient (water rolling off a duck's back) personalities, rather than actually being able to DO much about the negative aspects of the job.
I guess I'm looking for what makes nurses who love their jobs, love it and not let the "stuff" get them down. As I said before, I think I have a pretty realistic expectation from previous experiences volunteering in an ER/ED and from working in an LTC facility as a CNA, but I do worry that I too could become one of the burnt-out & bitter club, which is definitely not what I want for me or my patients!!
- May 25, '12 by PhoenixbyrdOP, I have to say that I echo your sentiments. When I first found AN 2 years ago, I devoured it. I spent all my time trying to imagine myself as a nurse, accustoming myself to what I thought would be a "nursing lifestyle". I read about issues of doctor/nurse relations (and checked myself for authority issues), patient safety and a plethora of other things I won't list here.
I do understand that working nurses need these forums, perhaps to expel the negatives they face. But like you, OP, I miss being inspired. Long before I thought about becoming a nurse, I used to marvel at the nursing gear, the mugs, the books (chicken soup for the nurse's soul, etc). It seemed to me that nurses had a distinct professional identity, one protected by principles and support groups (to combat burn out, for example). All this talk about lateral violence really pierces through my earlier idealization of the profession. I am aware that my earlier veneration of nurses may have been ill-informed, but I do miss the inspiration. While visiting the hospital recently, though, I talked to a couple of patient care techs who spoke of the "love of nursing" and even the "love of the patient" that got me to thinking about how I will develop and practice my own therapeutic care. I would like to hear more stories of nurses who love their career or who have a professional philosophy that incorporates a professional manifestation of love and caring. When I start my program in the fall, I am going to address this issue with my professors.Last edit by Phoenixbyrd on May 25, '12 : Reason: corrected subject/verb agreement
- May 25, '12 by dudette10I've been a working nurse for almost a year now. What I like about my job:
--Every shift, there is at least one thing that takes creative thinking to work out. I need to be intellectually stimulated, and I do get that.
--I enjoy wound care, and I give myself opportunities to do so by doing the dressing changes early in the morning (I work night shift). The dayshift nurses are often grateful for that because dayshift often has the task of dressing changes.
--I have found that I'm very good at the soft skills of nursing. Demanding, alert and oriented patients irritate me, but I am often able to satisfy them (for the moment). Confused little old ladies calm down with my approach. Families have often shaken my hand and thanked me as they leave after their loved one is admitted. I don't know what it is that I do, but I see the effects of my actions. It makes me happy to know I've satisfied/appeased them somehow.
--I'm a neat freak, and I enjoy the look of a patient's room that I've just tidied or cleaned up. When I get a chance, I also tidy up the nurse's station. I have never understood why it's so difficult for other nurses to place garbage IN THE GARBAGE. I find it on the meds carts, the floors, next to the computers, under patients' beds, in the nursing break room, etc. Even when I pick up daylight shifts, I can hit the garbage can with my waste, despite those shifts being busier. I guess I subscribe to the now-antiquated nursing notion of cleanliness and tidiness for patient care. (Sorry, there was a rant in there...)
The only thing I absolutely hate is rude doctors at night. I am not waking them up just because I want to...
- May 25, '12 by rubatoI'm sorry that AllNurses discourages you, but this board is here for everyone. And, a lot of people like to have a place to vent. They can't do it at work. They can't do it at home. Their friends either won't understand because they aren't nurses or they will understand but they work together. Nursing is not a career that is all happiness and lightness. It's a hard, demanding job that requires everything you have. Some of the aspects of it are amazing and some are not. This is a safe place for people to get rid of the frustration so they can go to work and do their job. What's wrong with that?
- May 25, '12 by IndyElmerQuote from rubatoI'm don't think anyone is saying that it can't be a place for venting. The OP is simply trying to start a non-venting thread looking for positivity, inspiration and encouragement. Perhaps you could share some of the "amazing" that makes you keep going and skills that help you to be better able to deal with the "not amazing aspects."I'm sorry that AllNurses discourages you, but this board is here for everyone. And, a lot of people like to have a place to vent. They can't do it at work. They can't do it at home. Their friends either won't understand because they aren't nurses or they will understand but they work together. Nursing is not a career that is all happiness and lightness. It's a hard, demanding job that requires everything you have. Some of the aspects of it are amazing and some are not. This is a safe place for people to get rid of the frustration so they can go to work and do their job. What's wrong with that?