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I'm going into my 2nd year of my ADN program in the fall, scheduled to graduate in May 2007. So far it has been a great experience & I'm doing very well.
Here's my "dilemma". My husband and I have been thinking about starting a family (I'm 28 1/2 and he's 34), and I'm wondering if I'm nuts to even consider it while still in school/getting ready to work my first nursing job. We know we want to have children, but we were originally thinking about waiting until I had a year or two of nursing work under my belt. But we've recently been talking it over, and are both a bit concerned about the risks of waiting. From a health/fertility standpoint, I would rather not be over 30 for my first pregnancy if I can work it out. I think hubby is even more concerned about his age - he would rather not be an "older parent" if he can help it and I think has more of a biological clock than me! Hubby has a good, stable job with excellent benefits, though money will be a little tight until I get working again.
I am wondering if any of you have been pregnant or had a new baby in school, and if so how you made it work (or not)! Even if you haven't but have thoughts on the matter, that would be appreciated. Even if I got pregnant NOW, it wouldn't be due until Feb. or March. I do my preceptorship in April, so probably would want to avoid that time if possible. Most likely scenario would be being due early in my first year of work.
Thanks for your thoughts!