this is what I have been doing:
*having breakfast in bed (hubby makes it
*have a nice, long, hot bubble bath with candles and music
*go see a movie/go shopping/go to the gym/whatever
*have a date night with hubby or a family dinner at our favorite restaurant
I like to include my family sometimes, because they are a wonderful part of my life
But, I also get plenty of alone time as well.
Enjoy your time!!