I am a first year student in the ADN program. I am generally a friendly person and I get along pretty well with everyone with the exception of one person. I've posted before about the situation but it seems to have progressively gotten worst since August to the point of being ridiculous!
I decided months ago to limit my interactions with her. She is loud, obnoxious and only offers negative comments concerning anything that I say. I'm going to skip all the filler and start with recent events. A couple of weeks ago she became combative because I didn't greet her when I came into class. She was all in my face about how she didn't know what my problem was and that I was funny acting and all this other nonsense about how I talk to the girl that sits beside me but I don't say anything to her. Yesterday, I guess she became offended again because I didn't say good morning when she came into class (late) and also because I went to retrieve my purse from my car and walked with someone else to the commissary building instead of waiting around for her. Today, I went to check my instructors mailbox for my careplan and walked to the commissary building alone. On the way back, I ended up walking infront of her and the girl that sits beside me (also our lab partner). While I walking she's behind me saying over and over again "I don't know what your problem is. You're trying to come between the group and you wouldn't even know (our other lab partner) if it wasn't for me. You putting her (our other lab partner) in the middle and black women should stick together but you act like you have a problem and look at those white girls and they stick together and they're laughing at us because of the way you act." I mean, verbatim, this is what was said. So I replied, "I don't have a problem and I'm not coming between anyone." I continued walking to the classroom and when class was dismissed I left.
I have tried ignoring the situation for weeks and it seems to only becoming worst and I'm at the point where I don't know what to do. When I don't say anything to her she has a problem and when I do speak she has a problem with what I say. I don't think she likes me and that's fine because I'm not attending college to make friends but I'm tired to dealing with this drama. Someone please help!