Hey guys I need your help. My dad was placed on a vent yesterday and his last words prior to being intubated was help... I want to help him so bad but I just don't know how. i've never worked with vented patients before so I"m not sure how much they know is going on. The doctors promised me they would keep him sedated but they also put his in soft wrist restraints so how sedated can he be? I can't do mouth care obviously....and he's 300 lbs so I can't reposition him tooo much myself.. any suggestions on hwat I can do to make him more comfortable would be greatly appreciated.