My nurse buddy and I just got together for our regular walk and lunch. I was telling her the story of a patient I had recently who was an endstage COPDer. There was the question of possible Hospice and a conflict between our inept social services director and the doctor as to the patient's wishes. The social worker had let me know that there was a conference with the family at 1PM and later said that everything was a go for the patient to go home on Hospice.
At 4PM the doctor called saying that when he spoke to the patient in the morning, the patient had expressed that he didn't want Hospice but wanted to go home with a hospital bed and some home health help.
We all know our social services woman is a flub up, so I decided to go directly to the patient and ask him his wishes, explaining the choices in a frank manner. He just didn't like the idea of Hospice, and just wanted to go home with a hospital bed.
My friend and I agreed that Hospice is rather an undignified stigma for many, and too narrow of a program. A patient prefering a simple comfort care plan should be entitled to Hospice type services without being labeled "Hospice" which means "Sentenced to Death" in many people's minds. The Hospice program here has a lot of requirements. And, the word Hospice is a turn off to many patients and their families.