I just dont know how I feel...

[Guest03/15/15, BSN, RN]

I am in orientation at a very nice large hospital in the Emergency Department. So far I love it! The managers are nice and helpful, the charge nurses are delightful and more than willing to help, fellow nurses are happy and pleasant, my preceptor is amazing, the paramedics are awesome. Everyone works so well with each other and helps each other out. Im very happy. My preceptor said he was impressed with me how I "took the reins and ran with it".

A few shifts ago - My preceptor and I stayed over past our 7A - 7P shift until 11P because it was a busy night. I encountered a couple of RN's would work the 7P to 7A shift. I went over to them and introduced myself letting them know my name and sharing that I am new on the unit but I will help them out as much as I can and for them to just let me know what they need. They asked what shift I will be working once off orientation and I let them know I will be working 12's on days.

Thats when one of the nurses said "I didnt know they needed help on days. It wasnt posted but I guess (ED manager's name) will do whatever she pleases". Then they proceed to walk away.

I really didnt know how to feel. I can understand their frustration. At that point I almost felt ashamed for having that shift when more experienced nurses are still working nights. I was a little put back by how bitter they were towards me, the situation, and the manager.

Anyways, once those nurses started into their routine I went back over to their side of the ED and asked them again if they needed any assistance and I would be more than happy to help. They were standing by each other and one said "We dont need any of your help". The look and tone they said that in was anything but nice.

I havent shared what happend to anyone (besides here ). Im not the type to run and tattle. I will continue to be pleasant and offer my help no matter how brass they will be.

The thing is that comment has me thinking. I dont feel like I deserve that awesome shift. I feel confused on how I feel .

How would you feel/do?

[canoehead, BSN, RN]

Apparently they wanted day shift, and now they have sour grapes. Fuggedaboutit.

[netglow, ASN, RN]

STOP. No more of this OP! Do not give a rat's behind what they think. I can tell you there is a reason why nights is where they will stay. Nobody wants them on days. Trust me in this. They could never be part of the smooth running team that you were chosen to be part of.

[tokmom, BSN, RN]

Be thankful you won't be working with them!

In the meantime, don't run and tattle. That wouldn't sit well with anyone. Just ignore the behavior and the comments. Keep killing them with kindness and offering to help them out. Who knows you just might win them over. If not, don't lose sleep over it.

[Art_Vandelay]

Eh, they are probably losing less sleep over it than you are. The less you think about people that irritate you or are rude to you, the better. What's the point? To make yourself feel bad for landing the job that the hiring manager obviously felt you are suited to fill? Not worth it.

[RhinoRocketRN]

Do NOT feel bad.

[Guest03/15/15, BSN, RN]

Thanks guys. I was wondering if there was an aspect of the situation I was missing. I guess not.

I suppose it is kind of a compliment that the manager thought Id be a better asset to the team then they would ...even with my limited experience.

Ill just continue being me and being nice and offering help.

[Tinknurse2B]

:tinkbll:don't worry about it ....that same attitude they're giving you is the reason they are on nights now. just keep being you...don't let their jealousy change the reason why you're going to be on days.

[heartflutter, ADN, BSN]

Exactly what above posters said.

Let it roll off your back. You deserve the day shift because with a ****** attitude like that, I doubt the management wanted to reward them with working days! Congratulations to you for finding a job and shift that you love and deserve.

[FancypantsRN]

Well.... I am a night shifter who wants to go to mid shift. There are two sides to every story. I cannot move to days, not bc of a bad attitude (I am actually pretty laid back) but bc they have to find an experienced ER nurse to replace me with (or so they say *shrugs shoulders*).

Right about now do I wish I was the new grad getting mid shift bc I don't need to be replaced? Heck yeah, but I would never treat a new nurse like *!?, it's not their fault. I have to say though, it does stink getting the short end of the stick..... but we all get over it.

OP, just hang in there, continue being the bigger person and it will all blow over. They are just being petty.

[KarmaComesAround]

Sorry you are having to deal with individuals like this! Keep your positive attitude, being a team player, and enjoying your job no matter what. BUT how did this turn into they are on night shift because they belong there and due to their attitudes...a night shift staff bashing? As a night shifter by choice, I was on day shift, and I (plus a couple other staff) went to night shift due to better attitudes, teamwork, and all the positives that you describe as your experience on days. This has to do with those individuals and that clique. Some choose to work night shift, not because stuck there. Just want to point that out, and you will encounter people like this on any shift, any department, etc.. Just keep enjoying your job/career. Keep the great attitude and work ethic! Do not let people like this get to you, although it is hard at times.

[SageSarah]

A good situation to just watch and learn. You are not responsible for the circumstances, whatever they might be, that landed you on days. Continue to stay positive and helpful. Then just watch.