Hi all,
I know this post may sound stupid...but I just need to vent a little...and I know you all are sooo good about letting me do that. Ok....I was scheduled to work this last weekend...but had to miss all three nights due to influenza. I tried to go lastnight....but the fever and body aches were just too bad. I felt soooo bad calling in three nights in a row!! My heart was literally jumping out of my chest as I was making the call. I guess the reason that I'm feeling down is because I think I miss a lot of work. I have endometriosis as some of you know and sometimes the pain is sooo bad...I just can't make it to work. I feel like I'm calling in too much and I'm afraid I'll get fired or something. I've only had one snide remark thus far...my supervisor took my sick call one time and said quote: "it just amazes me how often some people call in sick around here". I just bawled and bawled after she said that...I actually went to my doc and he was nice enough to write up a note saying that I have incapacitating pain at times,....etc. I gave this to her and she said "ohh, you don't call in that much"...I'm thinking she's bi=polar..but anyways....I can't help but feel bad..it's in my nature. I have never once called in because I was faking it, etc. It's always totally legit. I just feel that if I have a fever, or am hacking to death, or am in severe pain....how can I adequately care for those that need me...anyone with me here??? Maybe I just care too much about what others think of me...but...I know there are a few nurses (the ones who are never, ever sick) that talk about those that call in too much....I just know they are talking about me behind my back. It's soo depressing...it's bad enough to feel like crap...but then have to worry about what others are thinking and worry about getting fired or something. Am I making any sense here??? Probably not...LOL....I guess I just wish there was a more global understanding of those with chronic illnesses......we have a gal that has fibromyalgia.....if she misses work...I hear others talking...therefore I'm sure it's the same thing with me and my endo. We are all in the medical field....perhaps we should consider taking care, nuturing , and understanding the health problems of our staff and not just our patients. Thanks for letting me get some of this out...I feel better already. Sorry..it rattled on...must be the fever...LOL
luv ya all,
Snoop':kiss