Hello everyone I am a new grad and I was offered a position in an ortho-trauma unit at a magnet status hospital, my problem is that this hospital is located out of state and I have to uproot my family for this job. Pros are I do have family in the state I will be relocating to so my son will get to know his grandmother , aunts, and uncles, its a magnet status hospital, great educational opportunities after 6 months of employment 12 free credit hours at a state university per semester, self scheduling unit, this is a 500 bed hospital so a lot of opportunity to grow as a new nurse. Cons are I have to uproot my three year old son and husband, which he travels a lot anyways, basically that's all the cons I can think of.
My other option is to stay where I am at and work for a 100 bed hospital, pros would be I get to stay in this state.
The state I will be leaving is California and I will be going to Tennessee, yes I know pay is lower compared to California but cost of living is lower too, I have actually already found a house to rent that is a quarter of my house payment here in California. I am just so confused on what to do? I understand no one can tell me what to do but maybe you guys can give me a different perspective in the matter. Thank you for reading this and if you reply thank you for that too.