Hey guys,
I am thinking of going in to the nursing field. I have been married to my lovely wife for just over 7yr now. When we got married she was finishing her degree in graphic design and I was supporting us. During this time I was taking night classes and working full time. Something I have recently gone back to doing. I have moved up in my career to a point where I am making good money, but since I'm in the construction field, I don't see the gravy train rolling much further and will be out with no degree and skill set that only applies to a dying industry. I quit school for a while when my career started getting more demanding. My wife understands that side of it, but wants me to finish in the business/accounting field. I dont want this to sound like some sort of midlife crisis thing, but I just cant see myself being even remotly happy sitting behind a computer crunching numbers all day. I have wanted to get into nursing for a while now because I want to be in a field where the work is a split between physical and mental. But more than that, I want to be in a field that actually means something. And I understand it isnt going to be all lollypops and rainbows everyday, but I think that the good will make up for the bad 10x. She says she doesnt think I will like it, and she does know me better than anyone. But I think she's wrong on this. Also, she keeps telling me that I will basically have to clean up feces and vomit all day. I know that isn't the case. The weird thing is that her mother is a radiologist and several of her auts are nurses, so I would think there would be more support from her. So Im kinda stuck on this. I want to go into nursing, but I dont think I can do it if I have a nay sayer in my ear constantly. My main concern is having every time I have a bad day it will be met with an "I told you so".
So now that you have way more background than you ever wanted, I'm wondering if any of the other guys on here have had this same issue with their significant other not wanting them to go into this field? (BTW, She's not the type to think Im not going to be manly or some other ridiculous tripe)
Also, can you guys give me a better idea of what the duties of an ER nurse would be. Thats the field I think I would be good at, mainly just because I know from administering first aid after a few accidents that I can react to stressfull situations well.
And as far as the vomit and feces thing, seriously, how much would a RN actually have to deal with that part of the job.
Thanks for any help you guys can give me. (BTW, I mean "guys" in the sense of a collective group of individuals, I would love to hear from the females the group as well).