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Well, it is kind of like this in my opinion. Beyond the need to sterilize ( if they knew that way back when), it also kept the dad busy..Men have a need to fix things and they can't fix labor or pain to their loved ones, so I tell them that, and then show them how the monitor works ( in relation to the large squares representing a minute of time, etc) and allow them to get the pt to the bathroom and hook the color coded cables back in. I let them know that too, so they are aware that we know they probably need to keep busy when things get intense. From boiling water to education. Thats a fair advance in progress! :)
i AGREE with mother/baby. The support people often feel powerless and helpless, in the face of watching a loved one labor. I quite often will give them tasks or things to do to help so they don't feel left out or like a 5th wheel. In the end, I am only helping myself. It's common for me to introduce them to the monitors, machinery, and the kitchen. I give THEM the option of getting the ice chips and popcicles, if they choose, as well as ask them to convey information to family members as they wait. This is usually helpful and they seem to relax measureably when they see they can help in some small way. It' s not just MEN who need this, either, but well-meaning moms, mothers-in-law and friends. Whoever is involved in supporting the laboring mom, gets brought "in the loop" as helper.
Since sterility in lady partsl deliveries is sort of a moot point,
I often have the dads open the bottle of sterile water and pour it into the sterile basin and tell them it is the modern equivelent of "boiling water" for the delivery! They get quite a chuckle out of this!
(and no our docs never use the sterile basin during the delivery...it usually gets used for post-delivery cleanup!)
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RNinCanada
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This may be an odd question, but my co-workers and I have come up with some different answers:
Many years ago, when midwives and elders came to the house to deliver babies, the husband was usually sent to boil water. What was the water used for?
Sterile technique?
To keep him busy?
For tea?
Just an odd question. :)