What should I do in this situation? (Very afraid)

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So I’ve been a Tele RN for a year and half now. The thing is from about 5 months in my ANM would periodically relay that coworkers have been complaining about me. I would inquire in what ways, but was never given anything in particular and only once was I told “you don’t know your patient’s”. This would happen every other 2-3 weeks. I strives extremely hard to improve this, then it was “ALL the patients are complaining”. When I addressed it finally after about 4 months it stopped.

The issue now is that I notice my assignments are different and I get lower acuity, and even nurses with 5-7 months less experience are getting higher acuity. I asked about it and was told there’s nothing to worry about. My main concern however is that I was placed on a Performance improvement plan. I was placed on it to improve patient and employee interaction (although I’ve had patients try an give me their numbers).

I was told we would meet either weekly/biweekly to discuss the progress, however when I inquire I usually get asked “well how do you feel you are doing”and I say all the ways I feel I’m improving ( this is not asked in a sarcastic tone). The thing I still have no idea how I’m doing. What should I do in this situation?

Thanks for any answers given ?

Specializes in retired LTC.
1 hour ago, LvlupNurse said:

 

..... I’ll be honest. Apart of me does want to tell my closest coworkers that I was technically pushed out, but I suppose I’ll take the high road.

Always be the professional when leaving. Nothing ever comes about with negative/sour grapes - nobody cares! Prob feels like good catharsis FOR YOU. But nobody else. And like the internet, things CAN & DO come back to bite!

A very wise manager (in my first out-of-high school business office job), told me "when you're gone, they'll miss you, for 2 weeks". That's about how long it'll would take payroll/HR to process you out of the system and nobody will see your name on anything else new again.

OP, your comment about seeing the new guy that was going to be working your shift resonated with me.  I passed the same "new guy" on the way out of the building one morning and had to stop by the manager's office.  She proceeded to fire me.  I had passed my replacement in the hallway.  So it was the high road, but I certainly felt foolish in that I was pleasant and welcoming to the guy who got my job.  Had I known, at least I don't think I would have shaken his hand.

Specializes in Medsurg/Tele.
20 hours ago, amoLucia said:

Always be the professional when leaving. Nothing ever comes about with negative/sour grapes - nobody cares! Prob feels like good catharsis FOR YOU. But nobody else. And like the internet, things CAN & DO come back to bite!

A very wise manager (in my first out-of-high school business office job), told me "when you're gone, they'll miss you, for 2 weeks". That's about how long it'll would take payroll/HR to process you out of the system and nobody will see your name on anything else new again.

LOL ? 

Specializes in Medsurg/Tele.

Update. Manager ask me to meet this morning. I was expecting to be in even more trouble. I was still busy, so she approached me and asked me to stay on perdiem, but wants me to stay full time really. Threw me for a loop considering I had checked out and was counting the days down like Christmas to restore my mind.

  I have accepted another job on a casual basis. I really do enjoy my coworkers, so I didn’t rule it out. 
 

The thing is how should I approach this, since Instill have that PIP that was done. What questions and details could I lay on the table discussing me staying? Even if I stay, I still have the PIP. What would some of you do in this particular situation? All answers greatly appreciated.

 

Specializes in Medsurg/Tele.
18 hours ago, caliotter3 said:

OP, your comment about seeing the new guy that was going to be working your shift resonated with me.  I passed the same "new guy" on the way out of the building one morning and had to stop by the manager's office.  She proceeded to fire me.  I had passed my replacement in the hallway.  So it was the high road, but I certainly felt foolish in that I was pleasant and welcoming to the guy who got my job.  Had I known, at least I don't think I would have shaken his hand.

She asked for me to stay on perdiem. I’m gonna look to see if I see this new guy, in the coming weeks.

Just now, LvlupNurse said:

She asked for me to stay on perdiem. I’m gonna look to see if I see this new guy again, in the coming weeks.

 

I just don't think I would stay on in any capacity at a place that has me on a PIP, justified or not.  Too easy to turn into a nonrepairable cluster.  Git while the gittin' is good.  Start over fresh.

Specializes in retired LTC.

cali - good advice.

Specializes in Medsurg/Tele.
21 hours ago, caliotter3 said:

I just don't think I would stay on in any capacity at a place that has me on a PIP, justified or not.  Too easy to turn into a nonrepairable cluster.  Git while the gittin' is good.  Start over fresh.

Do you mean like it could be a set up? 

Specializes in retired LTC.

Like the sword of Damacles - a sword hanging by a thread over your head.

Just ... just waiting.

Specializes in Medsurg/Tele.
On 9/19/2020 at 1:06 PM, amoLucia said:

Like the sword of Damacles - a sword hanging by a thread over your head.

Just ... just waiting.

I ended up going to the managers office, after she asked if I could meet with her. I explained to her everything that’s happened and how I’m feeling. I asked about the PIP as well. 

 She ended up telling me that I was on par with any other nurse on the unit, and the PIP was a result of something with me going to administration and her hands being tied. She then went on to say that she wanted me to stay, and that the patients and the coworkers like me, and she sees great potential in me.
 

She also said she likes me and that I have a great attitude. I did tell her that due to the PIP and other issues before she arrived, that I’m very burned out mentally and have been paranoid for months, and would still be paranoid going forward. She said that she isn’t targeting me and is aware that there were individuals from the other shift tellling on individuals from another shift and she was tired of the tattle telling. Also told me she let of of 2 nurses and that I’m not the only who’s made certain mistakes.

 

 Anyhow that’s how the meeting with. I told her I’d decide in a week. I have 2 weeks left on my notice. I already have a perdiem job, but if I did stay, what would be the safest course to protect myself? I would be staying on perdiem as well here. Keep in mind I said if I decided to stay. Thanks in advance.

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