WGU - competency based means let go of perfectionism!

[klone, MSN, RN]

I FINALLY turned in my very first paper for my very first class. I've been stressing about this paper for literally weeks (I started the class over a month ago). It's on a topic I have no knowledge or interest in. I would write a little, then get stuck and walk away. Then stress about it and avoid it for days on end. I finally made myself finish and submit it on Monday. I thought the paper totally sucked a$$. I got my results back this evening, and I passed the competency. I easily could have finished this paper two weeks ago, but I was trying to make it perfect, and stressing that I knew it wasn't (and my way of dealing with stress is by avoidance).

So, lesson learned - they don't expect perfection, and the fact that you don't get letter grades in this program should help you realize that your work doesn't need to be perfect, just acceptable.

[caliotter3]

You would be surprised how many perfectionists never learn this little life lesson!

[BetterMeRN]

Yeah, congrats!!!!

[klone, MSN, RN]

Bumping this up for new WGU students. It's an important lesson when doing a competency-based program!

[BetterMeRN]

Thanks, Klone.

[SweettartRN]

Klone

I am glad that you posted this because I am an English snob. :)

I will have to just follow my guidelines, write my papers and get them turned in!

What has been the most challenging paper you have written to date?

[rwethereyet]

klone-- How have your experiences been? Have you had to turn back on the perfectionistic side for any classes? Or are you still finding that the competency-based program requires you to look at classwork in a different way?

[BlkQueen8]

This is great to hear for those of us who have that problem.

[PMKNSE, MSN, RN, APRN]

Bumping this up for new WGU students. It's an important lesson when doing a competency-based program!

Your words came as a relief. I'm taking the first Algebra class and struggling--and at the same time dreading the papers for the other classes. It's been awhile since I've had to do that. I do the same "avoidance" trick as you. Just started and already can't wait until its over.

[klone, MSN, RN]

Just bumping this up again, because I think it's STILL a valuable lesson (and one I STILL struggle with, three years later!)

[psychRNmom2]

Yup. Turned it 2 papers so far that I was SURE would be returned. Received 4s on all sections! I am constantly reminding myself to keep it basic!

[MyCall2Nsg]

Looking to start the BSN and also very anxious about the classes, tests and papers. I am looking for a program that will adequately prepare me for the role of an advanced practitioner and not just merely meet deadlines and complete courses. I have been a nurse for 22yrs and have taken some college credits as well so the requirement might not be that much. I have just looked at the WGU's program and I am wondering if it will be a good fit for me. I work 36 hrs per week and have a family like almost everyone these days in school. I am determined to do this within the next 12-18 months and then go on to do the MSN.