I recently had a patient who was admitted because a neighbor contacted the police when they realized she was living at home with a few pets in a house with no heat or running water. She's been admitted with a minor medical diagnosis, but it's been passed in report that we're just waiting on long-term care placement for her. She's in her mid 80's, has been living independently for many years, and she's pretty clear that she's going back to her house with her pets, because no one has told her otherwise. I've worked with many dementia patients over the years, even the ones that were pretty sneaky about it, and I honestly didn't see indications of dementia. She had some trouble with phone numbers, and these days no one has a phone book, so she was in the process of tracking some people down to help with the heat and water, according to her, before the neighbor called the police. If we had a system in place where elderly people could live in their home, have someone just check in on them for the basics, and they could retain some independence, that would be so beneficial. Now she'll end up in long-term care, potentially funded by the state depending on her financial situation, and she's one of those people that I'm pretty sure will just will herself to die in an institutional setting. And she's going to be one of the combative aggressive ones, too. That's the report I got from the previous nurse, but it's all about approach with her. If she feels empowered to make decisions, she's fine. As soon as she feels control has been taken away, she digs right in and will get feisty, and I don't really blame her. So what's the worst possible thing we could do for her? Long-term care placement. Breaks my heart to think that she'll never be home with her pets again and all she wanted all night was her dog on her bed. Sometimes I hate getting old.
