As some of you have read our family is going through a rough time with our matriarchal Grandmother. She is the glue that binds us and the sass that keeps up laughing through our troubles.
For more on her recent admission to the ICU read here: A Lesson in Family, Ethics and End of Life - Nursing for Nurses
Well at this point of time we are really at a cross-roads. My Grandmother is now trach-vented and is neither improving or declining. She has good and crabby days, but overall is described to me as sassy and competent. My family is currently looking into an LTAC facility for her. This was something I was dreading. Though now I am not so sure what to think.
My conceptions of death and end of life are so challenged right now. In the end it is not my decision, however after a long heart to heart with my Uncle, I realized how terrified he is to have to make that call.
She cannot survive off the ventilator. However nothing much spectacular is going on in any direction. I keep wondering, what is end of life like when you are being held together with band-aids and hope?
If anyone has any suggestions for any books that might be of use to our family, or websites please feel free to post them here.
I am treading deep in unfamiliar territory and am not sure how to help support my family right now.
Thanks for listening (reading),
Tait