Just curious...How do you all handle it when you have an unexpected, OBVIOUS anomaly at birth? I mean with telling the parents? I know how I do it, I want to know what y'all do. I'm talking about stuff that's OBVIOUS...like club feet, missing fingers/toes, cleft lip/palate, etc.. Stuff that isn't omg horrible, just non-lethal anomalies that normal parents of course freak out about when they're not expecting them. So...what do you say/do? How do you handle it?