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Hi guys,
I recently enrolled in an ADN program and am doing a maternity clinical right now. I was told by my instructor that I should always have a fellow female nursing student in the room with me.
I understand that this helps protect me but is this a law of some sort or is it merely a recommendation?
Also, should all male nurses have a female nurse with them whenever they have a female patient? What do you do if your patient specifically requests a female nurse. Is it always feasible to simply have another nurse take that patient??
Sorry for all the questions but this issue has been really bothering me. How do you guys typically handle this?
i absolutely loved l&d! It was by far my favorite semester in nursing school.Having said that, as a guy, i would never want to work in l&d. It would be too weird.
Now, when it comes to treating a female patient, in any other department, if i have to go 'under the gown,' unless its an emergency, i'm going to have a female in the room with me. Nurse, cna, phlebe, housekeeper, whoever. Women can be complete wackos sometimes (no offense ladies) and i'm not going to put myself in a position where i could ever be acccused of acting inappropriately.
Even though i'm a new nurse, i've been in this world for a while now and trust me - the guy always loses.
Just my $0.02
amen, brother! And i have been married for 40 year. I loose twice. Can i get another amen!!!
It completely depends on the patient and your situation. I have taken care of a lot of women who could care less as long as they are treated with respect and dignity. As a young male nurse, its usually me who is uncomfortable in these situations, yes, I am a professional and have had the appropriate training and can perform the needed tasks as well as any female (no offense), but I am still slightly uncomfortable doing certain things without a female coworker present. As much as we'd like to deny it, we still work in a world that is predominantly female, and some patients are just more comfortable with a female taking care of their personal needs. Always ask your patient first, they'll usually freely tell you if they aren't comfortable...but when in doubt, have a female present as a witness, it shouldn't bother you and if something does arise later on, you have someone on oyur side!
Jees, if I had to have a female nurse with me the whole time I had a female patient I would never get anything done. In OB it's a little more tricky because just about every aspect of it is a little more intimate than your average med-surg floor (I work on a surgical floor). Basically, if possible, anytime you're doing anything that requires revealing and/or assessing "private parts", try to bring a female staff member in, even if it's just a tech, just to legally cover your butt. Most importantly, just be confident and professional about whatever you do. Patients will sometimes sense and misinterpret awkwardness and discomfort.
As for patients asking for a female nurse. This very rarely happens on med-surg floors, but when it does it's our job to accommodate them. We can't force care on a patient. If it happens, talk to your charge nurse and try to trade patients with another female nurse on your floor.
OB is really not an area of nursing that many men are comfortable with, if for no other reason than the inability to empathize. I know I was happy to have that rotation over with.
Rick68fl
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I absolutely LOVED L&D! It was by far my favorite semester in nursing school.
Having said that, as a guy, I would never want to work in L&D. It would be too weird.
Now, when it comes to treating a female patient, in any other department, if I have to go 'under the gown,' unless its an emergency, I'm going to have a female in the room with me. Nurse, CNA, phlebe, housekeeper, whoever. Women can be complete wackos sometimes (no offense ladies) and I'm not going to put myself in a position where I could ever be acccused of acting inappropriately.
Even though I'm a new nurse, I've been in this world for a while now and trust me - the guy ALWAYS loses.
Just my $0.02