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My question is for all of you nurses that are also mothers! I just had my first baby in February and decided to stay home until my daughter gets a little older (thankfully my husband is supportive of this decision). My question is how long is too long to not be working in the nursing field? I'm afraid if I stay out too long that I won't be desirable as a job applicant when I go back. Is there a magic number that I should have in my head for when to go back? Thanks in advance for your input!
There is no magic number. It will depend a lot on your state practice requirements and your current skill set. I would highly recommend that you try to get a part-time gig that will help you keep your skills sharp. You also will feel more confident when, or if, you venture back into the full-time world. I stayed home for 3 years while we lived overseas, I had no problem getting a job when we came back stateside. That was a while ago though and the job market has become more specialized and competative. I did volunteer at our local hosptial which gave me something to put on my resume to fill in the blank for those three years.
I would recommend taking a prn job with minimal work requirements to keep up your skills while still leaving time for your family responsibilities. I am glad I did this. Having complete control over my work schedule, earning money(nice per diem rates), and having something outside of home and childcare that was mine was sanity -saving. That small stream of income made a bigger difference than I had anticipated too.
Keep your hand in if you can, even a couple of shifts a month will do that.
Not_A_Hat_Person, RN
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I have 2-year-old twins. I had no plans to quit working after they were born, but between day care costs and health issues with my daughter, working full-time was not an option. Finding a part-time job with benefits was really hard.
I wound up working a per diem job that required 1 shift every 90 days. I ended up leaving because not enough shifts were available. My current job is also per diem, and requires 2-4 shifts per month (including one weekend). I work about 15 hours a week, and could work more if I wanted to. My husband's job provides great benefits.
Leaving nursing entirely would be a bad idea because you can't predict the future. My state also has a practice requirement, so not working can jeopardize your license.