Yup, was definitely a new experience. I am in my last semester of nursing school and am doing my leadership practicum. The patient who died was not my patient and I did not see him die. I saw the body during the first two hours post mortem and all the changes that go with it. The experience was surreal. I was numb and really did not know what to think or feel. Is this a good thing or a bad thing? I think I will be more emotional when I experience the death of a patient I am actually caring for.
I know death is definitely a part of nursing and it will cross our paths often (but hopefully not) during our careers. Part of me feels proud of how I handled it: I felt clinically and scientifically neutral, I recognized it as a learning experience. However, another part wonders if it was normal for me to feel virtually nothing. Am I in shock, professionally mature, or just plain cold? I should mention that my behavior with new experiences has been very strong and I am always surprising my self. In nursing school I have seen, smelled and done some very nasty and gruesome things. Most of the time I was aware of what I was about to do or witness. I would panic at first and then tell myself its part of the job, just do it. When it came down to it, I have always done the difficult job as if on autopilot. When I was done, I would be surprised that I was not crying, vomiting, fainting, scrubbing my eyeballs etc. Maybe that strength is included in seeing the dead body? I am just confused about my experience. Any thoughts, comments, similar experiences appreciated.