Horribly anxious. Increasingly dependent with ADLs and losing continence, which is new. Obsessed with her bowel movements - it's hard for her to defecate 2o exhaustion. Very frail, arthritis, already on axiolytics and we started her on Vicodin yesterday for severe back pain. She has been in bed moaning, "Oh, dear, oh dear" and, while I feel great sympathy, she is driving me nuts while breaking my heart.
Any suggestions? We have speech working with her on eating because she gobbles from fear of getting too tired to finish which, of courses, exhausts her.... it's a vicous circle.